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Today is a big day for the Ovarit project: we are now accepting donations from our supporters.

This journey started for me in 2013. I had concerns about a political movement that redefined the word "woman" and rapidly shifted the Overton Window on allowable feminist opinions. Redefined terminology effectively wiped out entire realms of feminist analysis by making them impossible to understand. Feminism could no longer be discussed without social repercussions. I felt like I was losing my mind because everyone I knew in political circles suddenly flipped their views on feminism, what a woman is, and how we are oppressed in patriarchies. The only clear directive was that you weren't allowed to question the new dogma.

When I found r/GenderCritical I was relieved to find I wasn't alone. Other people noticed the same issues and had the same concerns. Over the years, we created many communities that rejected this redefinition of "woman" and defied a political movement that repeatedly derailed movements for women's rights and liberation.

When our communities were suddenly deplatformed we decided that would not be the end of them. We immediately got to work building Ovarit so we could host communities ourselves, without fear that the platform we used would change its policies without warning and ban us without notice again.

The people trying to prevent women from organizing against the roll-back of our rights are trying to isolate us from one another. They want to prevent us from finding each other. They want to silence us. They would erase our dissent from all records if they could. They know they can't win by debating us. They never even consider if it is wrong to suppress women instead of attempting to discuss the issues with us.

I’ve covered the costs of running Ovarit because it's of vital importance to me that these communities exist, that censorship doesn't stop us from speaking up and organizing, and that we're able to find each other and find out that we're not alone. It made the difference for me. I don't want any other woman to be left in isolation and confusion.

Now we can move into the next phase of this project and make Ovarit more financially sustainable.

Donations will go towards:

  • Previous and future costs of running ovarit.com, including server expenses, deployment expenses, and security consultation
  • Previous and future costs of maintaining Ovarit LLC, including business filings and consultation

If we can cover those costs, we would like to pay developers and other contractors for software features and other work.

When you donate to Ovarit, you help ensure alternatives to male-dominated communication platforms can exist and thrive. Thank you so much for your support.

If you have any questions please let us know.


Are Donations Anonymous? Is cardholder information available to view?

As far as I've been able to tell, it isn't normal for any payment processor to keep the name of the cardholder anonymous from the business owner. When I am on our payment processor's website, I'm able to see the payments and the cardholder associated with them. We are not collecting this information, but our payment processor does let us see it. We won't be saving this information or distributing it. We consider it confidential and sensitive.

That said, there may be ways for you to keep your personal information anonymous from payment processors. Your credit card may allow you to make a virtual card to use: I've never done this and I don't know if it allows you to use a pseudonym but it's worth checking. There are services such as https://www.abine.com/ and https://privacy.com/ which allow you to mask your payment information through them to keep it anonymous from other parties (feel free to recommend any you've used below). Prepaid credit cards are another option which let you use any pseudonym.

Can people who don't have Ovarit accounts donate?

Only users with Ovarit accounts can donate via our site, but anyone who doesn't have an account but wishes to donate can do so via a paid subscription to Ovarit's official Substack.

Today is a big day for the Ovarit project: [we are now accepting donations from our supporters.](https://ovarit.com/donate) This journey started for me in 2013. I had concerns about a political movement that redefined the word "woman" and rapidly shifted the Overton Window on allowable feminist opinions. Redefined terminology effectively wiped out entire realms of feminist analysis by making them impossible to understand. Feminism could no longer be discussed without social repercussions. I felt like I was losing my mind because everyone I knew in political circles suddenly flipped their views on feminism, what a woman is, and how we are oppressed in patriarchies. The only clear directive was that you weren't allowed to question the new dogma. When I found r/GenderCritical I was relieved to find I wasn't alone. Other people noticed the same issues and had the same concerns. Over the years, we created many communities that rejected this redefinition of "woman" and defied a political movement that repeatedly derailed movements for women's rights and liberation. When our communities were [suddenly deplatformed](https://ovarit.com/o/Announcements/135/welcome-back) we decided that would not be the end of them. We immediately got to work building Ovarit so we could host communities ourselves, without fear that the platform we used would change its policies without warning and ban us without notice again. The people trying to prevent women from organizing against the roll-back of our rights are trying to isolate us from one another. They want to prevent us from finding each other. They want to silence us. They would erase our dissent from all records if they could. They know they can't win by debating us. They never even consider if it is wrong to suppress women instead of attempting to discuss the issues with us. I’ve covered the costs of running Ovarit because it's of vital importance to me that these communities exist, that censorship doesn't stop us from speaking up and organizing, and that we're able to find each other and find out that we're not alone. It made the difference for me. I don't want any other woman to be left in isolation and confusion. Now we can move into the next phase of this project and make Ovarit more financially sustainable. Donations will go towards: * Previous and future costs of running ovarit.com, including server expenses, deployment expenses, and security consultation * Previous and future costs of maintaining Ovarit LLC, including business filings and consultation If we can cover those costs, we would like to pay developers and other contractors for software features and other work. **When you donate to Ovarit, you help ensure alternatives to male-dominated communication platforms can exist and thrive. Thank you so much for your support.** If you have any questions please let us know. --- ###Are Donations Anonymous? Is cardholder information available to view? As far as I've been able to tell, it isn't normal for any payment processor to keep the name of the cardholder anonymous from the business owner. When I am on our payment processor's website, I'm able to see the payments and the cardholder associated with them. We are not collecting this information, but our payment processor does let us see it. We won't be saving this information or distributing it. We consider it confidential and sensitive. That said, there may be ways for you to keep your personal information anonymous from payment processors. Your credit card may allow you to make a virtual card to use: I've never done this and I don't know if it allows you to use a pseudonym but it's worth checking. There are services such as https://www.abine.com/ and https://privacy.com/ which allow you to mask your payment information through them to keep it anonymous from other parties (feel free to recommend any you've used below). Prepaid credit cards are another option which let you use any pseudonym. ###Can people who don't have Ovarit accounts donate? Only users with Ovarit accounts can donate via our site, but anyone who doesn't have an account but wishes to donate can do so via a paid subscription to [Ovarit's official Substack](https://ovarit.substack.com/).

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Replying to myself under a new comment because I don't want to start a new thread or post - I think it's really disheartening and painfully ironic that we have reached a point in time where women are afraid of being linked back to having donated money to a site that says women need safe spaces to speak.

I understand why we want/need to be anonymous, and I'm not trying to shame anyone for staying safe, especially in a time like this where we've all seen what happened to JKR. I just hate that the reality of the world has come to this, and I'm angry and upset about it.

There are millions of subscribers to reddit, to pornhub, to all sorts of other actual problematic websites and services. I don't think many of them actually worry about their bank card details being traced back to them to the extent that I see women worrying about it here. Like isn't that such a fucking clear sign of who is actually oppressed? We know there ARE people who are all too willing and happy to doxx us. Some TRA on twitter probably has already screenshot this post and this comment, and are laughing at us for needing to ask for funding, while there are 40K+ girls crowdfunding for top surgeries on GoFundMe.

It's such a horrible state of the earth. And yet we're the bigots and we deserve it.

This was the comment that ultimately got me to get off my butt and make a donation today.... That, and I lost my password for several months and finally just found it again.

I might be a coward for using a prepaid gift card, but you know what, you are absolutely right. We should not have to live in so much fear. We should be able to donate some money to an online forum like this where women can connect with each other without having to resort to these kinds of measures. We should be able to speak the truth about our experiences as a women in this world without facing the prospect of losing our jobs and receiving rape threats and death threats. We are all human beings, mammals, mortal animals, and we reproduce via sexual reproduction so we come in the MALE and FEMALE variety. We, the females, are smaller, physically weaker, and put up with so much shit around the world just for not having a Y chromosome. We get murdered, controlled, coerced, and generally spat upon every single day, and now in the developed Western world we are not even allowed to speak freely about our experiences or set any kinds of boundaries with the toxic males who want to literally wear our skins.

To quote a great movie, I am sick and tired and I don't want to take it anymore. I donated $100 today and I plan on donating as much and as often as I until I have the right to speak freely in public about my experiences as a biological human female without having to literally worry about whether or not some insane man will literally murder me.

To Ovarit founder and mods: thank you for all you do, and continue do. Thank you for this website. At times, I feel like it has been one of the only things between the misogynist TRAS and me feeling like I'm losing my mind. From now on, I plan to do more to support both you and WOLF.