Women learning to self-harm through sex (and "love") and sick males learn to exploit this for their own gain.
Women learning to self-harm through sex (and "love") and sick males learn to exploit this for their own gain.
Women learning to self-harm through sex (and "love") and sick males learn to exploit this for their own gain.
This community is for the analysis of BDSM, fetish and other sex practices which cause harm to the participants, especially from a feminist perspective.
Many of these practices coincide with or evolve into abuse.
Rules:
No Kink Apologia
Be Respectful
Engage in Good Faith
Rules are explained in the stickied post, "Read This First"
It absolutely wasn't like this. Never was I hit, slapped, choked, or otherwise abused during sex back in the day. This is shocking, appalling, grotesque, horrifying -- any number of adjectives, and it still doesn't feel like enough.
None of this sounds like sex. It all just sounds like abuse and hate/misogyny. What exactly is "sexy" or alluring about being slapped and punched? And more to the point, I really want someone to answer THIS: What exactly is "sexy" or a turn-on about punching, slapping, or choking someone you claim to love (or at the very least find attractive)???