This community is for the analysis of BDSM, fetish and other sex practices which cause harm to the participants, especially from a feminist perspective.
Many of these practices coincide with or evolve into abuse.
Rules:
No Kink Apologia
Be Respectful
Engage in Good Faith
Rules are explained in the stickied post, "Read This First"
Remember when sex was supposed to be fun and pleasurable, and with someone you felt safe and happy with, not terrifying and painful?
Those were the days.