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It absolutely wasn't like this. Never was I hit, slapped, choked, or otherwise abused during sex back in the day. This is shocking, appalling, grotesque, horrifying -- any number of adjectives, and it still doesn't feel like enough.

None of this sounds like sex. It all just sounds like abuse and hate/misogyny. What exactly is "sexy" or alluring about being slapped and punched? And more to the point, I really want someone to answer THIS: What exactly is "sexy" or a turn-on about punching, slapping, or choking someone you claim to love (or at the very least find attractive)???