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My SO slept around a lot more than I did before we got together. He tried a ton of 'rough' moves and dirty talk and I had to tell him 'bro wtf are you doing' (he absolutely respected me stopping it) but it was like that was just the standard I was oblivious to... who slaps a woman's vuvla and thinks they like it? He did it and then apologized when I freaked out lol. Never did again. But tbh I wish I didnt have to 'untrain' whatever porn and bar hookups did to him to begin with. Like he had not ever had sex that wasnt like that, even getting hit and punched hikself and I refused when he asked. I cannot do that, holy hell. Now he says he has never in his life had sex as good as me and him do together, probably because we actually care about showing love and care instead of 'being dirty or kinky?' Crazy shit

Oh wow! I have seen a variation of your story from women who say their man refused and they eventually stopped wanting kink in their lives and really appreciated gentle sex more, but your story is the first time hearing the gender roles reversed!

Oh interesting, I was super sheltered and honestly assumed the guys were usually guilty haha but idk. I don't really watch porn either, have a few times but it is just so gross usually. Not willing to sift through all that to find something that does not look painful.