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I saw this on Reddit, for those who don’t want to click a link directly to reddits page or hear her describe sexual acts, a woman is describing a “hook up” she had with a man on Hinge. She states that the date started out okay but that he started “negging” her throughout

She decides to return to his apartment with him. She explains that when she gets to the apartment she’s surprised to learn that the man has children as there are toys in the apartment and he didn’t disclose to her that he’s a father.

They end up taking things to the bedroom. I’m going to detail what happened below.

The man went down on her and was terrible, she complained about his awful oral sex skills. She then went down on him and was surprised when he slapped her across the face out of the blue. She said it wasn’t hard or hurtful just caught her off guard. He repositions her and then gets up, he sticks a single finger in her mouth and moves it in and out which confused her. He says to her “good girl, stay there” then goes to the closet and retrieves a large sex toy that she describes as looking like a neck massager (with an electrical chord attached to it because it’s old) he adds a condom to it and she’s surprised to realise that he wants to use it on her. He then gets a belt and ties it around her restricting her arms to her sides, then he adds a leather ball gag to her mouth. He slaps her across the face again and then proceeds to slap her breasts.

Whilst I think she told this story with a lot of comedic effect, I don’t doubt these things happened to her, nor do I think she was okay with it.

I was surprised to see many people showing concern for her in the comments, many people calling out the negative effects of porn on the way this man behaved and concerns for how porn is effecting relationships negatively. It took me a few scrolls before I saw people blaming her for the negative interaction (why didn’t she leave? She could have got herself killed) but I’m glad to see that the tide is turning in attitudes towards porn and how bad it is for people.

I’d copy and paste a few examples but my phone just doesn’t let me.

I saw [this](https://www.reddit.com/r/TikTokCringe/comments/ycdsyl/the_worst_hinge_hookup_ever/?utm_source=share&utm_medium=ios_app&utm_name=iossmf) on Reddit, for those who don’t want to click a link directly to reddits page or hear her describe sexual acts, a woman is describing a “hook up” she had with a man on Hinge. She states that the date started out okay but that he started “negging” her throughout She decides to return to his apartment with him. She explains that when she gets to the apartment she’s surprised to learn that the man has children as there are toys in the apartment and he didn’t disclose to her that he’s a father. They end up taking things to the bedroom. I’m going to detail what happened below. >!The man went down on her and was terrible, she complained about his awful oral sex skills. She then went down on him and was surprised when he slapped her across the face out of the blue. She said it wasn’t hard or hurtful just caught her off guard. He repositions her and then gets up, he sticks a single finger in her mouth and moves it in and out which confused her. He says to her “good girl, stay there” then goes to the closet and retrieves a large sex toy that she describes as looking like a neck massager (with an electrical chord attached to it because it’s old) he adds a condom to it and she’s surprised to realise that he wants to use it on her. He then gets a belt and ties it around her restricting her arms to her sides, then he adds a leather ball gag to her mouth. He slaps her across the face again and then proceeds to slap her breasts.!< Whilst I think she told this story with a lot of comedic effect, I don’t doubt these things happened to her, nor do I think she was okay with it. I was surprised to see many people showing concern for her in the comments, many people calling out the negative effects of porn on the way this man behaved and concerns for how porn is effecting relationships negatively. It took me a few scrolls before I saw people blaming *her* for the negative interaction (why didn’t she leave? She could have got herself killed) but I’m glad to see that the tide is turning in attitudes towards porn and how bad it is for people. I’d copy and paste a few examples but my phone just doesn’t let me.

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so he sexually assaulted her? i’m so confused. was the event consensual or not? i dont really understand her reaction