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This.....isn’t ok

It's extremely disturbing, very not okay. I'm glad so many of them are ex's. I hope those young women realize that those men aren't remarkable or unusual, they are the new normal, and that they are better off seeking companionship, even if it's sexless, with other women, and divesting as much as possible from men.

The scary thing is, I can see some women feeling guilty for wanting to leave a man after he ‘trusts me enough to share’ and the whole ‘no kink shaming’ thing keeping her there

So much of the recent shift is male serving.

Ugh. My poor daughter

If I had a daughter dating age, I don't know what I'd do. Be trying really hard to encourage her to be celibate if she was attracted to men, I guess.

"but some women really like sex!!!!"

I see this sentiment repeatedly, even here.

The thing is, I'm sure in theory that could be true, but I'm convinced that the majority of heterosexual women (or bi women who've only been with men) haven't actually had sex. The stats on how few women ever get to orgasm during "sex" with men to me proves this: if it involves a woman but doesn't include or end in a female orgasm, at least one, then it isn't sex. What's really going on, by and large, is that men are using women's bodies as masturbation aids (and gestation chambers), and that is being passed-off as "sex". And girls and young women are brainwashed into thinking they "like it". I am in serious doubt they can say they like sex if they haven't had sex. I'm generalizing, of course, but I think I made my point clear enough.