If I knew that a man was involved in BDSM, I'd cut ties with him. I can't say all of them are dangerous, but you'd have to be at least a little bit sociopathic to get pleasure out of causing harm to others.
Kinks are not infallible or immune to criticism. If my body and rights as a woman is able to be criticized and debated, your sick fetishes and kinks are able to be criticized and debated.
Bless. Every day I picture a world without misogynistic kinks running rampant... If only society had listened to us and shut down these ‘kinks’ (repackaged misogyny and domestic abuse and pedophilia) before they became mainstream. (Though, I think most of liberal society thought they were listening to feminists as this became mainstream. Damn libfem.)
This community is for the analysis of BDSM, fetish and other sex practices which cause harm to the participants, especially from a feminist perspective.
Many of these practices coincide with or evolve into abuse.
Rules:
No Kink Apologia
Be Respectful
Engage in Good Faith
Rules are explained in the stickied post, "Read This First"
Amen. Kinksters seem to think that "consent" absolves them of any moral or ethical responsibility for their actions.