I agree with you. There's no way she was consenting from start to finish. Rough sex my ass, this was rape!
But let's pretend she was willing to be abused and injured, that she was literally asking them to continue despite the pain... so what? It doesn't matter, people are responsible for the damage they cause in all other contexts, why should sex be different? If a friend of mine asks me to stab her because it's so much fun and I do stab her, will the police be persuaded that it's ok because she consented?
Well, they do consider murder okay if it made a man's dick happy to strangle a woman.
So ... yeah, if they watch "lesbian" porn where women stab other women, they'll probably let you walk free.
(Don't try to kill a man with that justification, though. They won't allow that.)
There's no way she was consenting from start to finish.
Even if she consented in the beginning, she must have been in an incredible amount of pain to have enough damage that she needs a colostomy bag for life, and she probably revoked her consent at that point. I doubt she gave consent without coercion though.
She might have been intoxicated too. Or even passed out.
"Rough sex"
I have read about literal murderers using the same wording when they strangle their wife/girlfriend to death. It's insane. Sex and violence have become completely entwined in the minds of these porn-sick men.
I haven't heard of an epidemic of gay men needing colostomy bags
I actually remember seeing a discussion a while ago where a gay man was talking his severe anal injuries for which he had to wear adult diapers and get multiple surgeries. And some replies were saying that even though they are gay, they don't have anal sex at all due to how damaging it can be and how they don't want to get the same problems they have seen a lot of older gay men have. So, these type of issues happen to gay men too.
Edit: Not sure about many gay men needing colostomy bags though. Gonna go out for dinner soon so don't wanna google this stuff right now
I haven't heard of an epidemic of gay men needing colostomy bags, and gay men certainly explored all perversions related to anal sex that are, you know, fun in some way or the other.
THIS!!
This epidemic of violent porn only seems to result in harm for young women who have sex with males.
We also don't hear about gay men "accidently" strangling their partners to death during a "consensual" bout of choking
"Rough sex"? Don't they mean rape?
I honestly cannot imagine that there was ongoing consent. I haven't heard of an epidemic of gay men needing colostomy bags, and gay men certainly explored all perversions related to anal sex that are, you know, fun in some way or the other. (And have more of an incentive to consent to anal in the first place, too.)
We really need to get rid of the idea that consent makes everything okay. I mean, men lie about consent all the effing time, it's almost worthless as a concept. Males first tricked us into tolerating all kinds of shit as long as there is "consent", then went on to define "being to poor to say no to someone who pays for it" as "consent".