Yes this bit really struck me too. Like that is exactly what is going on, people have just been nice and polite, mainly because they have to.
This is a really unfortunate side effect of the whole TRA enforced “be kind” messaging, like we aren’t allowed to say what we really think, anyone who does is swiftly ostracised, banned, suspended etc.
On Reddit right now, there will be trans related posts with just heaps of deleted comments - there is where you’ll find the truth.
Jesus--listening to her literally not realising that everyone who interacts with her knows she's a TIF (if not just a regular nongendered woman). Yes, I hate to break it to you, but everyone you interact with is 'being nice'. We think it's lying too, but either we think protecting your feelings is more important than being truthful, or we're afraid of what you and your TRA compatriots would do to us if we were truthful.