These kids are being taught "cis" women "love" their periods/puberty, etc. and if one has any negative feelings, she's having a "traumatic puberty" and is a sign she's actually a man! Or a "nonbinary entity" which apparently is also hormone worthy these days.
Isn't female puberty kind of inherently traumatic? I don't think anyone's ever had a good time there.
Trans ideology is so contradictory. If you love, like, or just accept your periods/puberty, you're a woman, but if you're open about your love for it, you're a transphobe, and if you hate your period, you're not a woman. It makes no fucking sense.
I read awhile back that some mothers are putting their 13 or 14-year-old daughters on the pill, so they donât have to âsufferâ having periods. God, kids are coddled today. Mom, says the daughter, Iâm a boy because I hate my period. Of course, honey!
I go back and forth on this because grown women do the same thing. At the same time I feel like it's best to let young girls' bodies develop fully before you start screwing with them, barring some emergency situtation. Since science DOES provide us with a means to stop our periods if my kid were so distressed it seemed like the best way... I'd consider it... however it would be done as "women do have a way to control this." Not "maybe you're really non-binary or a boy!"
Then at the same time I wonder about the impact BCPs can have on your mood and how that might worsen mental problems at this age, and in this climate that will be taken as further proof that you are trans.
Coddling children so much it's literally destroying their physical bodies. But why teach girls that periods are a normal fact of life and there's healthy ways to deal with them when you can pump them with drugs and save yourself one mildly uncomfortable conversation instead?
As a parent, it literally feels like a hostage situation. My child could tell someone "My period makes me want to kill myself" and she would be fast tracked to medication. Not fast tracked to a mental hospital where she would be physically safe and these things would be hammered out in daily therapy, but fast tracked to medication. And if I tried to intervene, my face would be all over the local news on FB as "transphobic parent tries to block son from gender affirming care."
It's batshit crazy and not something I ever could have imagined when thinking about what the teenage years are like.
My partner said, âOh, but she hates her periods.â I said, âBut so do many girls.â
The number of people that I know in real life using this as evidence that their daughter is trans... I can't wrap my brain around it. The very first time I heard a mother say this, I wanted to say "I felt that way, too! Isn't that pretty normal?" but a voice inside told me the response would be "you don't know what it's like to be trans." It's amazing how many of us felt these things, but in this generation, it means something new and special.