So I read posts in a group chat of 'lesbian' young women in my field recently, all supposedly "WLW", and one of them posts about a drag queen transvestite show (imagine Alok Vaid Menon) as the highlight of her week and as brave and stunning.
Several of the people in this group identify as they/them as well although they're very clearly female.
Is this a generational thing? What on earth has happened to the young? It's hard to connect with women who don't think they're women... it cuts off community because it makes me question their sanity.