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“I’m questioning MY gender”

“MY gender identity”

“My body doesn’t match MY gender”

I’m sick of this bizarre individualism. TRA’s act like everybody has a different, special gender...gender is merely what is expected of a human based on their sex.

Gender is NOT a personal thing. NOBODY has a gender.

Gender is societal expectations/norms/shackles foisted on each of us depending on our sex. Gender is the clothes/hobbies/traits attributed to a male or a female because they are male or female. Females get the worst of “gender” as the expectations for the female sex are more restrictive.

Breaking gender norms/not conforming to gendered expectations does not magically grant you a special “identity” it just means you are a man who prefers “feminine” (clothes/hobbies/traits stereotyped as being for women) to “masculine” (clothes/hobbies/traits stereotyped as being for men) or the reverse, if you are a “masculine” woman.

Gender is nothing but shallow empty rubbish. None of this gender shite makes a drop of sense...pronouns for example are a description of sex, not of some flimsy self perception based on stereotypes. It’s so fucking stupid.

Nobody has a gender. We ALL have a biological sex and a personality (or, when talking about certain “folx”, a distinct lack of personality)

“I’m questioning MY gender” “MY gender identity” “My body doesn’t match MY gender” I’m sick of this bizarre individualism. TRA’s act like everybody has a different, special gender...gender is merely what is expected of a human based on their sex. Gender is NOT a personal thing. NOBODY has a gender. Gender is societal expectations/norms/shackles foisted on each of us depending on our sex. Gender is the clothes/hobbies/traits attributed to a male or a female *because* they are male or female. Females get the worst of “gender” as the expectations for the female sex are more restrictive. Breaking gender norms/not conforming to gendered expectations does not magically grant you a special “identity” it just means you are a man who prefers “feminine” (clothes/hobbies/traits stereotyped as being for women) to “masculine” (clothes/hobbies/traits stereotyped as being for men) or the reverse, if you are a “masculine” woman. Gender is nothing but shallow empty rubbish. None of this gender shite makes a drop of sense...pronouns for example are a description of sex, not of some flimsy self perception based on stereotypes. It’s so fucking stupid. Nobody has a gender. We ALL have a biological sex and a personality (or, when talking about certain “folx”, a distinct *lack* of personality)

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Yes this is always what I say to TRA: I literally don’t have a ‘gender identity’.

TRA: But you must have an internal sense of your soul magically matching your outer body and exPrEsSioN

Me: No. i really, really don’t. I have no internal sense of anything other than me and my individual personality

This is spot on. And I don't care what pronouns you use to refer to me when referring to me. You're referring to me in the third person. I already know who I am!

They get so upset at being “misgendered” because the person correctly sexing them is refusing to play into their fantasy/delusion.

Someone can call me “mr” or “sir” or “he” or “him” if they wish, I really don’t care. I’m female, I’m a woman and someone pretending otherwise doesn’t change that and causes me zero discomfort 🤷🏻‍♀️ I don’t “identify” as anything, I just am.