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This seems to be a thing. I wrote about it a bit here but very interested to hear other women's experiences, observations, and analysis of what's going on here.

This seems to be a thing. [I wrote about it a bit here](https://elizamondegreen.substack.com/p/leaving-your-husband-to-find-your) but very interested to hear other women's experiences, observations, and analysis of what's going on here.

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For some, it's probably the same factors that drive straight women to fetishize gay men. They are repelled by the sexual politics of straight relationships. They think that becoming a man with another man will help them avoid all that and be in a relationship between equals.