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This of course is mostly in jest, I am a woman and not a person with whatever, but wouldn't it be great if those descriptors were actually enforced? Bathrooms/clubs/spaces for people with a uterus only. Or birthing partners. Or people who know what period shits feel like. Or people with self-cleaning front holes. Or people with ladydicks so small they have to hide under a hood. Or people who can wear spinny skirts without looking like creeps. Or people who get called miss/ma'am whether they want it or not. Or people who actually get catcalled and actually don't like it. Or people who don't try to silence other people with violence/rape. And then a bathroom for everyone else. Not mentioning the word woman suddenly becomes even more exclusionary and that's actually hilarious because it's what they are trying to shove down our throats. So please go ahead, put it on our spaces and finally leave us alone. (And yes I know that not all women fit into all these categories...and that TIMs will suddenly identify into not only being a real woman but actually and biologically having whatever is necessary).

This of course is mostly in jest, I am a woman and not a person with whatever, but wouldn't it be great if those descriptors were actually enforced? Bathrooms/clubs/spaces for people with a uterus only. Or birthing partners. Or people who know what period shits feel like. Or people with self-cleaning front holes. Or people with ladydicks so small they have to hide under a hood. Or people who can wear spinny skirts without looking like creeps. Or people who get called miss/ma'am whether they want it or not. Or people who actually get catcalled and actually don't like it. Or people who don't try to silence other people with violence/rape. And then a bathroom for everyone else. Not mentioning the word woman suddenly becomes even more exclusionary and that's actually hilarious because it's what they are trying to shove down our throats. So please go ahead, put it on our spaces and finally leave us alone. (And yes I know that not all women fit into all these categories...and that TIMs will suddenly identify into not only being a real woman but actually and biologically having whatever is necessary).

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Wasn't there some post made by a TIM after the girls at his school (?) or maybe a gym changed their changing room sign from women to "AFABs ONLY" and the TIM lamented they were "abusing the trans terminology"? lol

Yes this. And it infuriates them. Tons of posts recently about women and girls reverting to AFAB language and how angering it is.

Honestly, I'm thinking if we really want to use their language against them, we should use the term "penis havers" much more liberally.

They will HATE it because it lumps both tims and men back together.. yet at the same time, they can't really say anything without sounding like total hypocrites, because they have no problem doing it to us.

It's time for us to start pushing their own shit back in their faces..like instead of saying, "tims in women's prisons, use 'penis havers' in women's prisons instead.

[–] spaghettiforhair adult human 🙍‍♀ 20 points

I unironically would love a terf-only bathroom.

We all would.

Which is why the TRAs would never agree to it. (Or, perhaps they would pretend to, but they'd be guaranteed to invade it. Because they are not afraid of us, they just claim to be.)

In fact I have a meme from a person calling itself 'Queen Thorn' sayiing 'No bathrooms for terfs'. It is holding a dagger in its hand.

I’m gonna take person with XX genotype

You can change the appearance of your phenotype, but I care about your genotype

[–] penguin-cat 3 points Edited

Every genotype that doesn't have a Y in it.

I'd like to include XY with complete androgen insensitivity as well, that's the one XY I'd consider women. The testosterone doesn't even affect them in the womb.

[–] Julie92845 2 points Edited

The thing is, XY women and XX men are so rare you can absolutely consider them on a case by case basis whenever the need arises. A woman with Swyer syndrome can use the XX bathroom, no problem. No need to make a big deal of it and use it as an excuse to upend a system that works 99.9% of the time.

[–] ItsCalculated 2 points Edited

Obviously males intruding on female spaces is the point and they would have a temper tantrum. Even so, if I had an establishment I'd put, "Assigned Female At Birth," on one door and, "Assigned Male At Birth" on the other. Or just simply an XX and an XY. It's not gender discrimination by definition.

We need to found a 19th century style secret society for "bleeders" then.