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Several layers deep on one of his ridiculous posts i commented that men who claim "TWAW" but then seek out women as surrogates are awful. For whatever reason he replied to me and I got a bunch of hate/abuse for my message. Someone threatened to kill me. And many other nasty, awful messages.

I'm 7 months pregnant, I don't need the negativity right now so I just deleted Twitter. I take abuse like that a lot online, so I'm not sure what it was that got to me today.

Just wanted to share with you ladies. Could use a pick me up.

Several layers deep on one of his ridiculous posts i commented that men who claim "TWAW" but then seek out women as surrogates are awful. For whatever reason he replied to me and I got a bunch of hate/abuse for my message. Someone threatened to kill me. And many other nasty, awful messages. I'm 7 months pregnant, I don't need the negativity right now so I just deleted Twitter. I take abuse like that a lot online, so I'm not sure what it was that got to me today. Just wanted to share with you ladies. Could use a pick me up.

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I'm a lesbian and I have to say this idea that we all fuck with strap-ons all the time is so disgusting, stereotypical, and wrong. It always comes up when lesbians don't want dick. "But you'll fuck each other with strap ons!" Well, sure, sometimes, some of us do. There is also a large contingent of the lesbian community that doesn't like penetration. My wife and I's strap has been collecting dust for a couple years now. It can be fun, but most lesbian prefer hands and mouths. Even if you're into penetration, hands are typically better at that too.

Its all a part of this idea that sex isn't sex unless PIV is involved. No, that's not true. Straight women who do everything with their male partners except penetration are still having sex. Its similar to the idea that all gay man are into anal, which is patently false. Gay people's idea of what constitutes "sex" is far more expansive that that. We aren't sitting around figuring out ways to emulate straight sex.

Not doubting that.

But trying telling lil ojs mamma that, because clearly she thought 1) all lesbians do this, and 2) it’s the exact same fucking thing as a man with a dick. Which it’s not.