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Several layers deep on one of his ridiculous posts i commented that men who claim "TWAW" but then seek out women as surrogates are awful. For whatever reason he replied to me and I got a bunch of hate/abuse for my message. Someone threatened to kill me. And many other nasty, awful messages.

I'm 7 months pregnant, I don't need the negativity right now so I just deleted Twitter. I take abuse like that a lot online, so I'm not sure what it was that got to me today.

Just wanted to share with you ladies. Could use a pick me up.

Several layers deep on one of his ridiculous posts i commented that men who claim "TWAW" but then seek out women as surrogates are awful. For whatever reason he replied to me and I got a bunch of hate/abuse for my message. Someone threatened to kill me. And many other nasty, awful messages. I'm 7 months pregnant, I don't need the negativity right now so I just deleted Twitter. I take abuse like that a lot online, so I'm not sure what it was that got to me today. Just wanted to share with you ladies. Could use a pick me up.

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I don’t set foot on Twitter. It seems like an easy way to ruin your own life.

[–] Tiramisuomi 1 points Edited

Your future: a beautiful woman holding the baby she created with her own body and produces food for. Birthing a new little universe teeming with trillions of different life forms all from your own body.

His future: planning a long, elaborate, cringey-ass LARPed home birth with a set schedule according to the surrogate's progress, ultimately culminating in a dramatic faked "vaginal" birth...... which doesn't happen because the surrogate says "no fucking way, I'm going to the hospital" and then changes her mind to keep the baby. She wins in court. He cries in the middle of his nursery and wipes his tears with the breast and sanitary pads he was determined to have a use for.

Let him have his Twitter "victory". How empty and sad.

Thank you for the reply. The support from this community really helped ❤❤

He might have a large army of stupids, but you have an army of intelligent people on your side, not just on this site but in everyday life your views are the majority. Rest easy in that knowledge. Good luck with the rest of your pregnancy; don't let fools make this time any worse than it has to be.

While they are spreading ideas of destruction, hate and misery, you are creating someone beautiful, a literal manifestation of love and hope. Your life has more meaning and causes for joy and wonder than these pathetic, sorry sad sacks and they can never take that away from you, however much they want to. Good luck with your baby, motherhood and all the rest of it! Your sisters on Ovarit stand with you 💚🤍💜

With some calling him OJ in the comments, now I'm thinking of Johnnie Cochran saying:

"If the cell has XY, you know he's a guy."

Anyway, best to you and your baby.

Holy shit fuck him for doing that to you. Idk who this guy is but I'm about to go curse his ass out for fucking harassing you

Hope you feel better soon

Thank you! I'm feeling much better today. I went to a friend's baby shower and was surrounded by friends celebrating the two little girls we are bringing into the world in November. OJ can't get me down (for long).

[–] Iceni 10 points Edited

I have had this happen from a big male account and they just let their useful minions do all the work for them. They know this, and it's disgusting. The reply this big account left was "fuck you". I reported it, but of course Twitter said it wasn't abuse. The big account also told me that I shouldn't worry about men, whoops I mean "trans women" in women's sports as it was obvious it has been years since I played a sport, which then led to a torrent of abuse about no man would have sex with me.

I also deleted my account as people were trying to figure out where I worked and who I was. What was more disgusting is that most of the people harassing me trying to find out who I was were handmaidens. This was all over a simple tweet of "Of course trans women have a physical advantage over women in sports". Nothing derogatory. No F words. No threats.

I am sorry this happened to you. I know how I felt when it happened. Focus on yourself, your family and don't worry about Twitter for a bit. If you need to vent or need encouragement, we are all here. Take good care of yourself. xxx

That is so scary, I'm really sorry you dealt with that. I actually only saw a few of the replies bc when I saw OJ had replied to me I decided to quickly reply once and delete Twitter. I was upset by the few comments I did read and didn't want to read the rest.

For now, I just deleted the app from my phone and haven't actually deleted the account. I've no idea what is happening with the account now, but I don't think I want to find out.

I would urge you to delete the account if there is any way someone could identify you and threaten your job. If not, then just don't look at it. I don't know where in the world you are, but what happened to Amy Eileen Hamm is a cautionary tale.

https://quillette.com/2022/04/08/im-being-investigated-by-the-british-columbia-college-of-nurses-because-i-believe-biological-sex-is-real/

Sometimes that crap really does get to you. Imagine a year from now, how insignificant and forgettable OJ and this crap will be as you spend time with your 10-month-old. And be there now.

p.s. don't go back to Twitter! Your baby will thank you. :-)

Fuck Owen Jones, and fuck Twitter. I'm glad you no longer have that nonsense platform, good luck to you and your baby ❤️❤️❤️

Fuck Owen and fuck his flying monkeys. Its telling that defenders of surrogacy have no problem sending death threats to a pregnant woman over a Twitter spat between two people who they don't even know

They were angry because you were correct and they couldn't refute you.

From one mother to another, please take care of yourself. ❤

Yes, those people are scary with how quickly the arrive at death/rape threats. I've seen misogyny (a lot) before, but the misogyny from the TRAs is truly something else. Thanks for the support!

I think the hormones induce like a roid rage in them, no one behaves like that, we call them all narcs but i'm thinking its more then that

I hate him, he is the epitome of a cowardly little misogynist hiding behind the rainbow flag. I have him blocked on everything. Nasty little man.

Blocking him and Colin Montgomerie is a good idea. They are both infuriating humans.

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