Good thread. Besides her main point, it made me realize just how totally undefended and boundaryless the psyches must be of some of these women:

they all talked about women in the EXACT kinds of ways that made me want to escape being seen like that so desperately. every time I saw anything from their [MTFs] sub I always came away feeling just disgusting and dysphoric

She felt "disgusting". When a person with good boundaries, if they bother with disgust at all, would feel that the TIMs were disgusting.