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Of course, as was inevitable, my favorite discord server has been overtaken by transgender ideology garbage. It used to be a civil place with people who I thought had common sense. But ever since the recruitment of the new moderators a few days ago, all the talk has been about transgenderism. The problem I have is these people promoting mere fantastical thoughts such as "you can change your body from male to female" as fact.

I'm pissed. I've been a part of this place for over four years. New mods have barely even been a part of it for one. I cannot believe I lost this little piece of refuge. I'm ready to just give up trying to interact with people all together because of garbage like this.

Of course, as was inevitable, my favorite discord server has been overtaken by transgender ideology garbage. It used to be a civil place with people who I thought had common sense. But ever since the recruitment of the new moderators a few days ago, all the talk has been about transgenderism. The problem I have is these people promoting mere fantastical thoughts such as "you can change your body from male to female" as fact. I'm pissed. I've been a part of this place for over four years. New mods have barely even been a part of it for one. I cannot believe I lost this little piece of refuge. I'm ready to just give up trying to interact with people all together because of garbage like this.

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I remember I used to be able to actually make friends online- on Discord, Tumblr, etc. Even some of the anti-TRA servers I have been just obsessively talk about it. I want to get away from stuff like that and meet neat people again but it feels like that time is over. :/ Even the gaming Discord I was on got completely taken over. It's wild.

[–] no- 14 points Edited

This has happened to me with practically every single thing I enjoy. My favorite content creators all turned into terf hating TRAs seemingly overnight. That’s just the way it is these days, there’s no community for us besides our own. I remember reading a post a TIM wrote that said something like “I won’t rest until terfs are total outcasts who don’t feel safe anywhere”. Well, his wish came true. And now what? The fact remains that men will never be women. This may seem like a losing battle, but reality is on our side. That’s the one thing they can’t take away from us, and it’s the only thing that really matters.

Women really need to start withdrawing...I don't see it getting any better. We need a good chunk of women to boycott men and stop giving them our time and emotional attention.

Reality is on our side...it always has been. People are just so disillusioned that the shock will be astronomical. I feel a lot of women feel it under the surface, and a most women know it's all crap. We need to just keep talking about it...even women like your aunts or mother can put it in their conscious a bit if you tell them about it. It gives me some hope.

Honestly like any trend, I'm thinking and hoping that soon ppl will be over all the trans whining. They have everything they want in the West. But they always need MORE and ppl are getting sick of it.

Plus they've fucked up their movement by basically excluding tifs from having voices. At the end of the day, tims are men through and through. Their violence and other male bullshit will be their undoing.

I realize I'm being way too hopeful right now lol

If anybody is ever interested, I basically eat, sleep and breathe discord and would be willing to make a server for any female oriented group.

It's a lovely idea, but it would be way too easy to infiltrate. TRAs are absolutely nuts and will spend hours pouring through post history (on Ovarit, plus any server) in hopes of identifying one of us. They live for being the "hero" that gives the community a new enemy/purpose.

The difference is that in spaces we own or mod, the second they outed themselves they'd be out on their asses.

The biggest risk, if everyone practices basic security measures, is that someone could post screenshots elsewhere or maybe get the server shut down if it's not a site we control. If you're anonymous, the screenshots won't matter and if you control the site, they can't shut it down and if it's Discord, you just watch your language while you're there, whack-a-dude any time one of them outs himself, and move on.

They can't get to us in DMs. And if the server is private they just can't get on. They can't make any accusations that they have a right to be invited either.

I don't really understand discord. Is it like private and public chat rooms?

Literally was part of an online risk community and torpedoed a 3 year friendship because he suddenly decided he was a woman as some kind of gotcha. It's been years since then, still "Jon" and not fooling anyone. We had a public fight in the general chat and apparently I'm a big TERF meanie. I'm grateful in retrospect because I didn't know what that meant and was able to find the GC->FDS->Ovarit communities. Most people that use discord are misogynistic men and children, I'm always weary of that place now.

I think is a low key plan. to infiltrate and moderate all types of online communities till they all are "glitter" next time any space has an open moderator space, take it.

I'm so sorry to hear that. What kind of discord server was it?

It was based around biology, as in, animals, wildlife, birdwatching, nature, you get the idea. That's the ironic part. They're trying to take over a server based in something that they clearly don't want to accept, lol.

Happened to a Discord server I was in too. Along with the admins introducing a bunch of other stupid rules which completely ruined the purpose of the server. I swear some people just froth at the mouth to ban any conversation or people the moment they get a bit of power. I can't stand it.

I just don't get it. I like reading dissenting opinions. I've had debates with racists and other giant assholes. As long as nobody doxxes or sexually harasses, why drive them away? It's just crazy to me, as someone who grew up during the wild west 90s internet lol

[–] Peppermint 1 points Edited

I'm sorry :( I totally understand. I used to play loads of games. especially wow and HOTS and hang out on discord a lot. Now I am insanely busy trying to clean up my life and prepare things. I'd join any new server if one was created but I can't say I'd be on all the time.

That sucks, I'm sorry. I am pretty much in the same place. I can't trust strangers enough to get close to them because if I make the wrong choice of friends, they could destroy my life.