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We spend a lot of time talking about the outrageous shit these men say, but I find myself sometimes irritated by some of their most inane comments from literally months or years ago.

I’d love to hear what small, non-offensive things skitter across your minds and why they offend you.

I’ll start:

A TIM raving about putting on their new favorite dress!! (It has pockets!!!)

The it has pockets just cooked my fuckin noodle. As if this brand new “woman” has any idea what owning dresses without pockets for the entirety of their life is like. They just thought it was girly. I saw it probably 6 months ago and it still crosses my mind occasionally and it still makes me mad lol.

We spend a lot of time talking about the outrageous shit these men say, but I find myself sometimes irritated by some of their most inane comments from literally months or years ago. I’d love to hear what small, non-offensive things skitter across your minds and why they offend you. I’ll start: A TIM raving about putting on their new favorite dress!! (It has pockets!!!) The it has pockets just cooked my fuckin noodle. As if this brand new “woman” has any idea what owning dresses *without* pockets for the entirety of their life is like. They just thought it was girly. I saw it probably 6 months ago and it still crosses my mind occasionally and it still makes me mad lol.

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[–] BlackCirce 🔮🐖🐖🐖 112 points

day 53 of being a girl

Dylan helped peak my daughter :)

Who's Dylan? Dare I ask?

Dylan Mulvaney, Days of Girlhood TikTok fame. Forbes asked this guy to speak at a women in business conference. He nauseatingly mocks teen and tween girls and tells them he can teach them a thing or two about femininity. Most people when watching him assume it's a parody of a guy mocking TiMs, but no, he's full-on grifting. He's a grown man pretending to be a teen girl. Massive douchebag.

it will just enrage you beyond redemption. lol

(Dylan Mulvaney, misogynist asshole of the month, raking in the dough for being a highly offensive clown)

Completely innocent if talking about a newborn baby, utterly outrageous from the mouth of a man.

Same! What’s worse, if he just posted videos of himself dancing around and enjoying life without pretending it makes him a woman I’d be all for it. Go frolic in the woods in heels if that’s your thing, but own it and be yourself.

Not in the woods! I want to walk in the woods without being freaked out by random men.

🎯

I don’t know how you do it, but 💯 every. single. time.

Upon hearing that Roe v. Wade had been overturned, "I need a hug to process this."

The histrionics they pulled when the cultural attention was, for once, turned toward actual women was astounding. The amount of "this matter because now trans lives are endangered!" was infuriating. No mention of the population overwhelmingly affected by the ruling, just their baseless speculation.

[–] proudcatlady 16 points Edited

“I just don’t think my penis should be alone tonight.” —Glenn Quagmire

Ok now I'm raging at this person and I don't know him and it's none of my business

What a complete fucking shitball casserole

“Us”

You are not us. You’re excluded by order of the Peaky Natures. Fuck off.

I really HATE the words they use for female body parts. My personal least favorite was the guy who talked about how cute he finds his new "boobers" Urghhh. That word isn't offensive but somehow it still really annoys me

🤮 they are so gross. Infantilising words cos they think it makes them sound cute - stfu dude, you’re a freaky grown man with a fetish.

My grandma used to say boobers. It was funny when she did it. But from a guy or anyone who's not an old lady, no.

[–] BlueToyotaTacoma I post shit 5 points

My Grandma made a joke about my “titties” once. She is one of the funniest people I’ve ever known because she has this amazing sense of humor. But a man making that same joke? No thanks!

I’m cordial acquaintances in real life with a TIM who I’ll call “Sam”, who is mostly a perfectly nice person. Recently in a casual group get-together (all female except for Sam) we were joking around about how privileged men say stupid things sometimes, and Sam kept on making comments like “Oh, straight white men, amirite ladies?!”

Very innocuous and I shouldn’t have been annoyed, but Sam up until your late 30s you were ALSO a straight white man (by your own logic) and, frankly, you still are one. Don’t make that joke.

[–] otterstrom 40 points Edited

Him: “Maybe if I throw in sexual orientation and race they won’t notice!” 👀

I doubt the thought even crossed his mind. Throwing out straight/white/cis are purely reflexive for a lot of people at this point when looking for a negative modifier.

I'm mulatto and I like to make everyone uncomfortable by calling out the racist comments towards white women.

I mean I do it for racist comments towards black women too, but it feels like ever since the pandemic started, it's become completely socially acceptable to shit on white ppl and I REALLY extra hate it when a white person does it bc I feel like they're saying it in front of me to get like, "cool" points? Or something? There's nothing wrong with honest discourse about racism and stuff but you can just tell when someone is using it as an excuse to shit on women

It's so fun to be like, "AKSHUALLY MY MOM'S WHITE SO COULD YOU NOT" to liberal assholes

[–] darkwolf131 8 points Edited

Yep. It's dumb.

I recently listened to a gay male acquaintance whine about how living in the suburbs is so bad because "everything is for cis white straight people here!"

Nevermind this dude is white, cis (sic) and upper middle class. Or that we live in one of the most ethnically diverse areas of the country.

Like, dude, move if you want. Nobody's stopping you.

"How do you do fellow womans? Ready to smash that patriarchy? My eyeliner wings are so sharp, they could KiLl a MaN".

  • him probably

How to make it completely obvious that "becoming" a woman was all about leaving behind their privilege and becoming above reproach. They are quite good at saying the quiet part out loud.

I’m so shook that a privileged white dude was saying shit only a privileged white dude would say.

The lack of awareness gives me second hand embarrassment

Yeah I knew a TIM who did that. He tried super-hard to fit in with the libfems and it was obvious the whole thing was just him desperately trying to find a place to fit in, even if it meant throwing other people under the bus.

One Tim told a story in r/2Xchromosomes about how he taught his female friend how to adjust her bra straps. He was all cutesy and uwu about it and acted like this woman had spent her entire life not knowing how to fix her bra until she met him.

Periods are so much worse for TIFs than cis women because dysphoria is a far worse emotional pain

Oh but pregnancy?? Totally fine. Seahorse dad yays!

[–] Artistlee19 Chickadee7 13 points Edited

I can never understand why TIFs will remove their breasts, take T, and emotionally bully everyone around them into referring them as he/him or they/them, BUT STILL get pregnant and give birth to children.

Self hatred for being women but will use their ability to give birth to up their social standing in society.

I was under the impression that TIFs who got pregnant were the exception rather than the rule. At least, before TRAs chased out the transmedicalists.

[–] spaghettiforhair adult human 🙍‍♀ 60 points

It always pisses me off whenever they shill for donations, or whenever their weird cosmetic surgeries are presented as LiFe-SaViNg GeNdEr AfFirMiNg CaRe. It all just stinks of entitlement.

Yup. Paying for other peoples cosmetic surgery is super low on my list of worthy causes. I’d rather buy a goat for a village in Africa any day.

Honestly everything they do pisses me off. The existence of men pretending they are women is an affront to me and imo, every female on the planet. Disgusting, pantomiming misogynistic skinwalking freaks.

Just every stupid thing that comes out of their mouths. It’s all so performative, they put on this affected voice (but still just sound like effeminate men) and do all these stupid gestures. They’re (trying and failing) imitating the natural mannerisms and behaviour of women and it is sinister as fuck.

[–] hmimperialtortie AGP = evil 9 points

Exactly. They’re offensive in every way, even before they speak.

Yep, if I see one on tv I just change the channel. Can’t bear to hear them simper about their “authentic selves” and soak up all the attention and energy. Gross.

[–] hmimperialtortie AGP = evil 2 points

These fuckers are one of the reasons I’ve pulled the aerial out of my TV. God knows the ABC is detestable enough these days in general, but the last thing I need is some scrote in a dress polluting the airwaves while I wait for my DVD to start.

They really do suck at acting like women. It's like they think we're all Fran Drescher as the Nanny

That was a CHARACTER, guys!

At 24: "I've never thought about having kids before"

Also "why can't you travel to Morocco alone?... Oh I never thought of that."

Fuckers

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