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[–] girl_undone [speaking as mod] 2 points (+2|-0) Edited - sticky

Please read this announcement for this circle, we don't want people linking to various reddit threads as posts. If you're going to post a reddit link, post a text post with some context on why you're linking to the reddit post and include the link at the end of the text post, please.

https://ovarit.com/o/GenderCritical/17460/please-post-feminist-articles-relevant-news-and-discussion-posts-in-line-with-ou

I'm leaving this up since we're late to the party but please take note for the future.

Not one "transphobic" comment but of course the mods are at the top of the comments warning women being transphobic gets them a ban. Why can't women be disgusted by pervy men? He messaged almost 15 women to look at his lingerie photos.

paratactical MOD | Female 30 to 40 1 hour ago

Also, FWIW, the odds are that the person who messaged you was not trans* but was just a troll/someone seeking fap fodder that used it as an excuse to try to play to your sympathies.

I very much doubt that.

[–] remquarqk 37 points (+37|-0)

Yeah, lol, fuck that. Also what's wrong with someone saying "this person is trans and a creep/perv?" Can someone not be trans and a creep at the same time? Is this transphobic even though that's what the evidence of the message leads to? It's just ridiculous.

[–] KissMyOvaries 18 points (+18|-0)

It’s funny how anyone who says they are trans is trans and you must respect pronouns!.....until the guy turns out to be a creeper, and then “he’s not truly trans! He’s just a perv trying to get off!”

[–] Marmorsymphata 36 points (+36|-0)

So they had a full rollout of graphic transition pics but weren't trans? lmfao

[–] pennygadget 30 points (+30|-0)

Also, FWIW, the odds are that the person who messaged you was not trans* but was just a troll/someone seeking fap fodder that used it as an excuse to try to play to your sympathies.

This is bullshit because, according to TRA dogma, anyone who says "I'm trans" is transgender.

[–] Gini 22 points (+22|-0)

That mod is a full on TRA. There is ONE sticky on that sub, the same sticky for months. Go look what it is. Pathetic.

[–] vulvapeople 16 points (+16|-0)

He wasn't trans but all the libfems are falling over themselves not to "misgender" him or otherwise make him feel bad. Yeah, sure.

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[–] remquarqk 43 points (+43|-0) Edited

What's scary is that OP was asking the community basically if she did something wrong...like this woman is over 30 and still scared to call out someone dangerous due to fear of being labeled transphobic.

[–] pennygadget 22 points (+22|-0)

...like this woman is over 30 and still scared to call out someone dangerous due to fear of being labeled transphobic.

That struck me as well. This wasn't a timid, confused teenage girl. This was a grown woman in her thirties!! And she felt the need to apologize for ghosting a random dude who sent her unsolicited racy pictures and tricked her into participating in his fetish!

Like....what? Just because he claims to be trans, she's supposed to feel bad about not wanting to sext via Reddit chat with a total stranger!? This is fucking sad!

[–] bellatrixbells 14 points (+14|-0)

This is definitely a way some men have found to force women in participating in their fetish.

You could say no to a man and creep, but as soon as he identifies as trans, calling him out and telling him to fuck off might get you death threats.

[–] hmimperialtortie 42 points (+42|-0)

So, another sicko male freak harassing women on reddit. Must be a day ending in Y.

Men can't stop taking advantage of women's generally kind nature. A man says he's lonely, he needs help, he needs someone to talk to -- and many of us fall for it. It's just another version of "I lost my puppy, little girl. Can you help me find my little lost puppy? I think he might be in this abandoned house behind these bushes. Help me search, won't you?"

[–] TheExorcistofLies 24 points (+24|-0)

“I received an unsolicited message on Reddit” NOPE. Full stop, ignore, delete and block. It’s always -and I mean always- going to devolve into some inappropriate fuckery. Always. Just trust me. Don’t “be nice” or “open and accepting of everyone”.

Delete and block.

[–] Spott8ni 13 points (+13|-0) Edited

We used to call them crank calls. Yes, do not engage. The medium has changed, but the motivation is nothing new.

[–] bumpyjerboa 21 points (+21|-0)

Every reply is "I got the same message."

Why can't men take a hint?

[–] bellatrixbells 16 points (+16|-0)

And of course the handmaiden mod is pulling a no true Scotsman and saying "this person isn't trans, they're trolling".

THE OP JUST DESCRIBED AGP. That's AGP.

And AGPs are welcomed with open arms in the T community these days !!

[–] Womancup 15 points (+15|-0)

Also, FWIW, the odds are that the person who messaged you was not trans* but was just a troll/someone seeking fap fodder that used it as an excuse to try to play to your sympathies.

Are these the odds? It make no sense. Trying to cover for trans people even when a woman has been violated by a trans person!

[–] ArmyofMe 13 points (+13|-0)

Creepy af. I have been around online long enough to delete that shit immediately but some women are so conditioned to be nice and accepting that they don’t want to be seen as rude.

[–] Avery805 5 points (+5|-0)

Omg. I received these messages too. At first I thought it’s just a not very mentally stable trans person, but when he started sharing his incest fantasies it creeped the shit out of me. I blocked him right away but then got afraid that this person can track my older comments and somehow use against me. So I ended up deleting my reddit account because of this bs. This is how I found Ovarit, because after deleting my account I wanted to write about it but didn’t find a single women-only community that didn’t state something like “trans women are women terfs F yourself” on their front page.

[–] Avery805 2 points (+2|-0)

I left a comment to that post saying that I also got these messages but was afraid to write a post to warn others because people might think I'm transphobic. Guess what? Got permanently banned from the community. Apparently, my comment was not as innocent as a fantasy about incest accompanied by nudes sent to random women.

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