A quick look on any trans Reddit shows an abundance of men questioning whether they should transition for porn or sex related reasons such as, they’ve started wanting to be the woman when they watch porn or they only feel aroused when think of themselves as a woman having sex. Now I have obviously watered their words down a lot there but there’s one such post on the MtF subreddit right now. His entire gender identity revolves around wanting to be “fucked” like a woman.
I have two issues with this, well actually there are so many issues with this but mainly:
They clearly only see women as a sexual object, a body. Nothing else about our entire existence as a human seems to be clear to them.
Why or how any woman could ever be expected to respect and welcome a man like that into our spaces is just beyond me. Here we have a man who openly sees woman solely as an object of sexual desire, demanding to be around women and children in our single sex spaces. WHY WOULD/SHOULD WE BE OK WITH THIS??!! It is extremely messed up and scary.
Men who admit their transition is linked solely to thoughts like this are not questioned by their own community. They are encouraged along onto a medical/surgical pathway and welcomed with open arms into the sinister gender abattoir.
Anyway, what are your thoughts on what is going on with these men? I see a lot of posts here and elsewhere on pornsick men but I’m not always clear on what has actually happened to them to bring them to this level of delusion and sickness.
Does anyone know anything about how excessive porn affects them? In dealing with teenagers in education, I’ve unfortunately read articles about the increasingly extreme or violent porn they are watching online and heard that they progress to more and more extreme content.
This isn’t a topic I know much about, curious to know what possible solutions are to this. I have seen some countries suggesting that porn be discussed on the curriculum.
This post is a a bit of a mix of ideas but I am curious to hear other thoughts and solutions on this.