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A quick look on any trans Reddit shows an abundance of men questioning whether they should transition for porn or sex related reasons such as, they’ve started wanting to be the woman when they watch porn or they only feel aroused when think of themselves as a woman having sex. Now I have obviously watered their words down a lot there but there’s one such post on the MtF subreddit right now. His entire gender identity revolves around wanting to be “fucked” like a woman.

I have two issues with this, well actually there are so many issues with this but mainly:

  • They clearly only see women as a sexual object, a body. Nothing else about our entire existence as a human seems to be clear to them.

  • Why or how any woman could ever be expected to respect and welcome a man like that into our spaces is just beyond me. Here we have a man who openly sees woman solely as an object of sexual desire, demanding to be around women and children in our single sex spaces. WHY WOULD/SHOULD WE BE OK WITH THIS??!! It is extremely messed up and scary.

Men who admit their transition is linked solely to thoughts like this are not questioned by their own community. They are encouraged along onto a medical/surgical pathway and welcomed with open arms into the sinister gender abattoir.

Anyway, what are your thoughts on what is going on with these men? I see a lot of posts here and elsewhere on pornsick men but I’m not always clear on what has actually happened to them to bring them to this level of delusion and sickness.

Does anyone know anything about how excessive porn affects them? In dealing with teenagers in education, I’ve unfortunately read articles about the increasingly extreme or violent porn they are watching online and heard that they progress to more and more extreme content.

This isn’t a topic I know much about, curious to know what possible solutions are to this. I have seen some countries suggesting that porn be discussed on the curriculum.

This post is a a bit of a mix of ideas but I am curious to hear other thoughts and solutions on this.

A quick look on any trans Reddit shows an abundance of men questioning whether they should transition for porn or sex related reasons such as, they’ve started wanting to be the woman when they watch porn or they only feel aroused when think of themselves as a woman having sex. Now I have obviously watered their words down a lot there but there’s one such post on the MtF subreddit right now. His entire gender identity revolves around wanting to be “fucked” like a woman. I have two issues with this, well actually there are so many issues with this but mainly: - They clearly only see women as a sexual object, a body. Nothing else about our entire existence as a human seems to be clear to them. - Why or how any woman could ever be expected to respect and welcome a man like that into our spaces is just beyond me. Here we have a man who openly sees woman solely as an object of sexual desire, demanding to be around women and children in our single sex spaces. WHY WOULD/SHOULD WE BE OK WITH THIS??!! It is extremely messed up and scary. Men who admit their transition is linked solely to thoughts like this are not questioned by their own community. They are encouraged along onto a medical/surgical pathway and welcomed with open arms into the sinister gender abattoir. Anyway, what are your thoughts on what is going on with these men? I see a lot of posts here and elsewhere on pornsick men but I’m not always clear on what has actually happened to them to bring them to this level of delusion and sickness. Does anyone know anything about how excessive porn affects them? In dealing with teenagers in education, I’ve unfortunately read articles about the increasingly extreme or violent porn they are watching online and heard that they progress to more and more extreme content. This isn’t a topic I know much about, curious to know what possible solutions are to this. I have seen some countries suggesting that porn be discussed on the curriculum. This post is a a bit of a mix of ideas but I am curious to hear other thoughts and solutions on this.

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One of the problems with porn is that it is an extremely efficient method of brainwashing.

Orgasms are about the most effective positive reinforcement there is. I can't explain in detail how it works, don't know enough about brain chemistry, but ... basically, orgasms make the brain very happy.

Now, imagine a man who doesn't have anything much going on in his life, perhaps he is a bit depressed, already a bit misogynist ... and now that man starts watching porn all day.

The article on the problem I read was about men becoming misogynist through porn, but I believe the AGP thing works pretty similar - they basically brainwash themselves. For every time they wank to a specific kind of porn, their brain is rewarded with an orgasm. That is much more powerful than, say, giving your experimental rat a piece of cheese for crossing the labyrinth.

I absolutely agree.

The majority of children are exposed to porn by age 13.

"More men indicated their first exposure was accidental (43.5 percent) than intentional (33.4 percent) or forced (17.2 percent)."

https://www.apa.org/news/press/releases/2017/08/pornography-exposure

I'm starting to think more and more that if we were able to protect little boys, they wouldn't grow up to be awful, or at least in such large numbers.

Same for girls -- if we were able to protect little girls, they wouldn't grow up believe sex work is work and putting themselves in dangerous situations and thinking so poorly of themselves.

Little Girls are groomed from a young age to be sex objects and DV victims. Little Boys are groomed from a young age to be wife beaters and... hypnosissies?

The article on the problem I read was about men becoming misogynist through porn, but I believe the AGP thing works pretty similar - they basically brainwash themselves.

It’s even worse when their porn of choice is sissy hypno which is literally meant to hypnotize them.

Just like with drugs, orgasms flood our brains with dopamine, and when a man is getting off to porn several times a day it alters their brain chemistry by damaging their dopamine receptors to the extent where they cannot feel joy or satisfaction from anything else except for porn. Porn addiction damages the prefrontal cortex which is responsible for executive function. It also has been shown to reduce the amount of grey matter in the brain and damage healthy neurons.

They’re constantly chasing the initial high, but the high only lasts for a short moment and it’s never as strong as it was the first time. That’s why porn addicts have to constantly view more and more violent and degrading porn to get off.

Yes, this makes a lot of sense as to how they end up. I was thinking that it might be something like this but I don’t really understand the science behind it so thanks for that info!

imagine a man who doesn't have anything much going on in his life, perhaps he is a bit depressed, already a bit misogynist ... and now that man starts watching porn all day.

I think I underestimate how men like this have so little going on in their lives and how much time they spend alone watching porn and reading MRA brain rot online.

Conditioning and also the chemistry of addiction. Addiction is both a function of hijacked brain chemistry and social/physical environmental factors like isolation and low stimulation.

[–] hmimperialtortie AGP = evil 7 points

All of this is why I have less than zero sympathy for any woes that befall TIMs who choose this.

Men truly are a different species... from a different planet... in a different solar system... in a different galaxy...

"I find it sexually arousing to physically inhabit the body of what I want to fuck. What's the big deal? Why can't you just let me get naked with you in the showers?"

Ummm, dude... 😳

Anyway, what are your thoughts on what is going on with these men? I see a lot of posts here and elsewhere on pornsick men but I’m not always clear on what has actually happened to them to bring them to this level of delusion and sickness.

I do really think it's porn. Look at r/TGandSissyrecovery or there is a good video by WhoseBodyisitanyway and G. Gluck on sissy hypno porn. I just discovered there is something called 'petticoatting' which is like forced feminization for male children.

I watched a film once called Don Jon about a guy addicted to porn and he basically isn’t even interested in sex with his girlfriend because it’s too normal.

petticoatting' which is like forced feminization for male children.

Just googled that….wow 🫠

Traditionally boys were "breeched" at age 7 or 8, i.e. put in their first pair of trousers; before that they wore petticoats and dresses and had long hair. The breeching marked the beginning of the father's control of the boy's upbringing. It would obviously have been pretty traumatic for many small boys, especially if they were sent off to boarding school at much the same time. Read Winston Churchill's pathetic letters to his mother asking her to visit, which she never did, being much too busy being a socialite.

Read Winston Churchill's pathetic letters to his mother asking her to visit, which she never did, being much too busy being a socialite.

That’s so sad.