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Currently fuming lurking lesbian reddits. A common theme on all of them is ‘transphobia’ according to the members which is an almost constant problem. Every lesbian Reddit they say over on lesbiangang turns into a terf cesspool.

How do people not question why? Lesbians are female homosexuals. We are not opposite sex attracted which trans women are. We don’t like males in our spaces running them and telling us we aren’t allowed to talk about our lack of attraction to the opposite sex. It’s crazy to me they are literally upset people have a reaction to homophobia. Lesbians communities turn into terf cesspools as a reaction to the intense homophobia we face in our own communities for being same sex attracted females

Currently fuming lurking lesbian reddits. A common theme on all of them is ‘transphobia’ according to the members which is an almost constant problem. Every lesbian Reddit they say over on lesbiangang turns into a terf cesspool. How do people not question why? Lesbians are female homosexuals. We are not opposite sex attracted which trans women are. We don’t like males in our spaces running them and telling us we aren’t allowed to talk about our lack of attraction to the opposite sex. It’s crazy to me they are literally upset people have a reaction to homophobia. Lesbians communities turn into terf cesspools as a reaction to the intense homophobia we face in our own communities for being same sex attracted females

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I've never seen anything more homophobic and misogynist in my lifetime than trying to take lesbian from lesbians. Men are obsessed with women who don't want them.

Yeah, it's damn near universal. It's why the The Rules books were written, because old-fashioned women know this about men and came up with tricks to take advantage. It's why I can't feel sorry for any of them who complain about being friendzoned. We get told our entire damn lives that we have to settle. They can settle too.

When the cry friend zone, you cry fuck zone. I refuse to be friends with men as it's happened to me more times than I can count. I just won't do it anymore.

[–] MissBehaved 91 points Edited

I'm just happy to hear there are an increasing number of 'TERF Cesspools' out there. I honestly think the trans agenda is the most homophobic movement ever. A combination of corrective rape and gaslighting the idea that lesbians even exist. I hope our lesbian sisters SWERF n TERF to the end of their days. Let all the TiMs die male about it.

“SWERF n TERF” - those are it! Those are my new pronouns!!!

[–] overanddone 87 points Edited

All these years the incels thought it was lipstick and spinny skirts that attracted women to other women. They want to be wanted by women, so they applied lipstick and spinny skirts.

Alas, now they see it is more than that, that they can never have what it takes, and that even chopping off genitals does not make them attractive to women.

Women are out of their reach, not under their control, they can't change that no matter how they change the rules and themselves. They will always be mad. Like men (!), they lash out when angry.

edit: spelling

"Women are out of their reach, not under their control, they can't change that no matter how they change the rules and themselves"

That's it. That's exactly it. Beautiful and true and right. And enraging to those losers.

What even makes a "spinny skirt?" Laughable that they think a skirt makes you a woman.

Just because my skirt is cut narrowly over my hips does NOT make it a pencil skirt. It is just as valid a spinny skirt as a circle skirt. More so, even.

I've read a few accounts of peaked lesbians who were initially welcoming of TiMs in lesbian spaces. Everyone want to be kind and trans women are the most vulnerable group, right? They hit peak trans hard when these dainty laydees quickly proved themselves to be exactly like every other heterosexual male creep who was convinced that he had the magic dick that would convert lesbians, except more aggressive and entitled.

I peaked in part from helping to put on an panel focused on trans issues with a lgbtq group I volunteered with. To my great discomfort, I quickly noticed a lot of male behavior out of the trans women panelists — they were steamrolling the trans men, being condescending, etc.

It really is crazy to watch TIMs and TIFs interact, isn't it? It makes it so obvious they can't be the opposite sex lol. Not in appearance, not in stereotypical behavior, not in any sense.

[–] no- 4 points

TIMs have hypermasculine personalities and interests, and TIFs behave stereotypically feminine. Appearance aside, trans people tend to be more gender conforming than “cis” people. Why is that? I have no clue, maybe they’re overcompensating.

This would make a really interesting post, if you ever wanted to write more about it.

At some point, even the most booklicking lesbian handmaidens can't help noticing that the "lesbians with penises" just so happen to be the loudest voices in every lesbian space. That's why "TERF cesspools" get created!

They do this to themselves by banning/silencing what real lesbians say and think, and then get angry at the delusional bubble they themselves crafted. The whiny posts about how lesbians will play nice, tell them TWAW, but magically never seem to actually want to date them. Well duh.

If lesbians were allowed true freedom of speech, these guys would have been iced out ages ago.

[–] bellatrixbells BoobatrixRex 14 points

Exactly. They ban women and lesbians from every space they can, and then as soon as they foray into a space they can't moderate, they're surprised that people aren't licking their boots.

Like guys.

[–] femlez34 22 points Edited

Also what they refer to as "terfy" is really benign stuff from libfems who still consider themselves allies. It happened to me and I've sadly seen it to a number of lesbian friends, we'll be literally bending over backwards trying to placate these men but they blow up at us anyways. Not because we did something they told us not to do, they just get off on abusing and controlling women, they're only happy if everyone else is fearfully walking on eggshells at all times. I peaked because they kept shouting about "nazi terfs" and I was really curious to learn about this supposed far right cult pretending to be feminists, so I sought out sites like this one and realized I agreed with all of it 😂 Peaking is inevitable for lesbians or any woman that spends enough time with TIMs, the only thing that worries me is how long it takes many of us to get there. I was an "ally" for over a decade dealing with that bs, it everyone is as slow as me there will always be a crop of young girls willing to cater to them and ignoring the warnings from us boring old ladies.

Edited to add: I remember one post years ago on the main TIM lesbian sub where a TIM shared a violent fantasy about getting revenge on all the "terfs" on the sub. I asked him what "transphobic" post or comment this was in response to and he couldn't cite anything. He responded something like "nothing that was actually written, I just know what these lurkers are thinking". What kind of fascist crap is that, we're getting preemptively punished for thought crimes now? They're totally unhinged and there's nothing women can ever do to placate them. Even if we dedicated our whole lives to propping up their delusions they'd never be happy because they still know it's a delusion.

[–] [Deleted] 🦇 14 points

I peaked because they kept shouting about "nazi terfs" and I was really curious to learn about this supposed far right cult pretending to be feminists, so I sought out sites like this one and realized I agreed with all of it 😂

Alright, let's see what these evil TERFs have to say.... Aaaaaaand I'm one of them.

A lot of things contributed to my peaking. Toward the top of the list was this notion that having a genital preference is transphobic. The first time I saw that argument I laughed and thought to myself that that argument would die immediately. No TIP would support such an absurdity. And here we are. Placing demands on other people's sexuality? Are you fucking joking? Done and DONE. Sadly, I'm not attracted to women, but you don't HAVE to be to recognize just how manipulative this all is, and the way they seem to grasp all this is just so very... male.

bending over backwards trying to placate these men but they blow up at us anyways. Not because we did something they told us not to do, they just get off on abusing and controlling women, they're only happy if everyone else is fearfully walking on eggshells at all times.

Like all abusers, they're determined to make themselves out to be victims and they'll do anything to keep the status. To be satisfied with anything is to no longer be a poor little victim. I think it's part of why incels become TIMs - it pays off to make themselves the ultimate victims, plus women are forced to pretend to like them instead of seeing them for what they are.

[–] Peppermint 8 points Edited

I was an "ally" for over a decade dealing with that bs,

I find this is depressing .. that its been going on for a decade and I'm just learned about all of this 4 months ago. And in general it feels like hardly anyone knows.

People have posted stuff written by lesbians in the 70's about this, it's been going on for generations! This is why it's such a damn shame that we have so little intergenerational mentorship in the lesbian community, even less now than there used to be. When I first moved to my city after college there were still lesbian bars and lesbian sports leagues where we could find each other, even though they weren't 100% lesbians, the others were harmless bi women. Now everything is "queer" and overrun with incel hetero men and women who have literally no interest in ever sleeping with a woman. Lesbians are a tiny minority even in supposed lesbian spaces, and we're made to apologize for our homosexuality non stop, so people just stop going.

They can't force us to deal with or date them in real life so the only hope for them is to capture the online communities.

It's gross. I mean, honestly though, everything going on in lesbian reddit right now is just fucking hypocritical and homophobic. Most of the removed content is still walking their bullshit lines, they just ultimately do not believe lesbians should be allowed to speak if it isn't in praise and support of males.

[–] Peppermint 24 points Edited

I wouldn't surf reddit anymore. Its a cesspool of trans identified men, groomers, AGPs and hostile incels. If lesbians could actually say what kind of cesspool their subreddits have become it would have happened already sadly. These men know exactly what is going on. If they are questioning "transphobia" out loud its because they are looking for confirmation of a lie (i. e. why aren't these lesbians fawning over my balls on reddit?).

I wish there were many other (non Ovarit) women's online spaces that don't allow TIMs/TRAs comments. These could be all the missing online spaces that have disappeared. Perhaps it will eventually happen once enough women have peaked. I know there is a friends app run by a woman who is proudly GC but i am not sure how successful it is.

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