I come into contact with a lot of women leaving domestic abuse situations. Not for work, but in a volunteer capacity.
It's not always directly relevant to what I do, but I like to encourage the women to open up to me about the history of the relationship, if they feel comfortable.
Something startling I realized today is at probably around 40-50%% of the women I've dealt with in that capacity have revealed that their abuser is transing themselves, or has participating in cross dressing in a sexual context, or has stolen their underwear and been caught wearing it. I shit you not.
I don't think I can do anything with this info, other than warn you gyns that odds are that if someone you know has a trans partner,
they are in danger. this probably crosses a line that I can't reasonably say is justified. But I will always tell women to be cautious.