I don’t get it.
I stayed some very obvious facts on YouTube recently that AGPs make the entire trans community look bad.
Duh.
Listen, I know most of us don’t believe in true trans and I’m not sure I do either, but how many TERFs started out fine with the idea of HSTS and then peaked because of depraved AGPs?
I spend enough time here I shouldn’t be surprised, but omg. The comments calling me transphobic and a terf. For saying that someone has to do something about Yaniv because he’s making the entire community look like a bunch of perverts. Saying I’m dogwhistling.
I can’t.
If you are really an advocate of trans rights, don’t you HAVE to hate Yaniv and Long Chu types? They are literally destroying your movement!! They’re not only saying but acting out the quiet part out loud.
How hard is it to say: some “cis men” will OBVIOUSLY appropriate the identities of “trans women” because “cis men” are perverts who have made media about how much they wish they had their own boobs to fondle for decades??
I don’t get it. If I’m an HSTS or even an AGP, I don’t want Yanivs parading around making me look like a threat. Whether I want access to women’s bathrooms because I really do feel threatened by other men or whether it’s so I can jerk off and talk about tampons, I don’t want someone like Yaniv or Chris Chan making people certain I should be in the men’s room.
Everyone should agree on this.
But they just will NOT. They will not denounce Yaniv. They will not say that Chris Chan is just a dude “appropriating trans identity” for his own purpose.
You don’t need to explain to me the whole bit about “well that’s self ID for you” because duh but this doesn’t benefit ANYONE. TRAs do not benefit from this kind of “anyone who says they’re trans is trans” bullshit either.
They have options. They could say “hey, anyone acting out porn tropes is not trans.”
These people are trying to tell me that autogynephilia DOES NOT EXIST when AGP communities exist in the open online for anyone to view. r/askAGP is a real subreddit.
Denying reality makes you look CRAZY and it makes TERFs look sane and rational. And it really comes across like you do not care about victims at all. Which most people don’t, but hey, women are half the population and if you don’t get your shit together each and every handmaiden has a limit.
They’re destroying their own movement in ways that are preventable. I get that AGPs are so lost in their own boners that they’re not thinking straight. But everyone else who stands up for them constantly?
The problem is that once you admit that "fake trans" exist and let people start asking questions about transitioners' motivations, the whole thing falls apart and it becomes obvious that there's actually no legitimate reason to transition.
Right now they just go by this undefinable "feeling of being a woman" (or man), and say that "cis people don't notice these feelings because their gender identity matches their sex". It's a convenient argument because it leaves "cis" people unable to question them, so to hold that up, they need to accept literally any man who says that he "feels like a woman". (except for detrans people, which is why they put so much effort into trying to silence them)