Sorry if this is the wrong circle to post this under (feel free to move if it is, or I can make a new post), but was in a bit of a frustrating situation recently.
I have a friend from back in my uni days who used to be a lesbian, however the past two years or so she has started dating TIMs. Now I think being bisexual isn't bad or anything, but she refuses to accept that she is bisexual and continues to call herself a lesbian.
Every time I mention it she gets really standoffish and even when we're with people I don't consider woke, it always feels like they're trying to get me to shut up. I know this is most likely just because they're scared of TRAs but it honestly feels like gaslighting.
This recently got a lot worse when my friend snapped at me, saying I was "erasing her sexuality" and that "she's attracted to women, not biology" (whatever that means) - It took everything I had not to point out that she was erasing the sexuality of lesbians by claiming that label while dating men.
Is there any way that I can convince her? I'm really worried I've pushed her even further into gender ideology by not going along with it, and that I might lose my friendship with her (I imagine the TIMs she's dating have been spouting nonsense at her constantly).