Like most women on this site, I don't believe gender is a thing. I know sex is a thing and that it can be easily proven, but gender seems to be some kind of wishy-washy concept for which there is no evidence and no actual definition. I don't believe gender exists so I don't have a gender. If it is up to each individual to know their true gender on an intimate level by searching their soul for it, then I guess I miss out. I just don't have the inner workings to detect gender, either in myself or in others.
Transgender people's whole identity relies on the concept of gender being real. They actually say they aren't attracted to a person's sex but to their innate gender. If this is so, how can they be attracted to me when I don't have a gender? Why do they harass lesbians for sex if those lesbians don't have a gender either?
Because gender doesn't exist for me, I can't be attracted to it. Who can admire what they cannot see, touch, experience, or understand? Yet transgender people call me bigoted if I am not attracted to their gender. Sex I can see and acknowledge but gender is invisible and inexplicable to me. Am I bigoted for only being attracted to what I can detect in a person?
It's not my fault I can't see or appreciate gender in the way some others can. I wish trans people would stop harassing the genderwoo-impaired for the way they were born. It's such a hateful and bigoted way to act towards a group who just want to be left alone.