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  1. -No Kink Shaming! (Okay, we went from no fat shaming which I'm okay with until that turned into treat thin women like the enemy to no kink shaming which is mostly aimed at protecting men that have violent kinks towards women. I think it's my duty to shame them and also shame the handmaidens at this rate)

  2. -I have a trans friend! (Often times used as an excuse to belittle women that stand up against tyranny of sexist men larping as women.) So that's nice but how many women do you know? How many women actually agree with letting men into all female spaces where women don't want to be subjected to a man that could be a threat to women and children?

  • Leaving the list small because there are more just to leave room for comments. Express how you feel about handmaidens and their comments commonly used to excuse hijacking of feminism to turn it all into men's rights activism.
1. -No Kink Shaming! (Okay, we went from no fat shaming which I'm okay with until that turned into treat thin women like the enemy to no kink shaming which is mostly aimed at protecting men that have violent kinks towards women. I think it's my duty to shame them and also shame the handmaidens at this rate) 2. -I have a trans friend! (Often times used as an excuse to belittle women that stand up against tyranny of sexist men larping as women.) So that's nice but how many women do you know? How many women actually agree with letting men into all female spaces where women don't want to be subjected to a man that could be a threat to women and children? - Leaving the list small because there are more just to leave room for comments. Express how you feel about handmaidens and their comments commonly used to excuse hijacking of feminism to turn it all into men's rights activism.

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[–] CacaoGudem 17 points (+17|-0) Edited

"Some women choose to be ___"

  1. Stay at home moms
  2. Sex workers
  3. Work less to spend more time with kids

The list is probably endless but this is what I can remember rn. I hate how they derail every feminist conversation by saying some women choose it! They completely ignore some women don't choose these and are directly forced into it. Even more privileged women who technically chose it might have been indirectly pressured into it and regret it later.

[–] pennygadget 5 points (+5|-0)

The list is probably endless but this is what I can remember rn. I hate how they derail every feminist conversation by saying some women choose it!

I hate the choice argument because it assumes that every woman's choices are... A) good for them B) not influenced by forces beyond their control.

Nobody who advocates for "every choice is valid" feminism believes that "choice" is an acceptable defense for women to do drugs, abuse their children, choose shitty boyfriends over their kids, etc. So it has no place being used to defend prostitution or any of the other sex-positive crap