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  1. -No Kink Shaming! (Okay, we went from no fat shaming which I'm okay with until that turned into treat thin women like the enemy to no kink shaming which is mostly aimed at protecting men that have violent kinks towards women. I think it's my duty to shame them and also shame the handmaidens at this rate)

  2. -I have a trans friend! (Often times used as an excuse to belittle women that stand up against tyranny of sexist men larping as women.) So that's nice but how many women do you know? How many women actually agree with letting men into all female spaces where women don't want to be subjected to a man that could be a threat to women and children?

  • Leaving the list small because there are more just to leave room for comments. Express how you feel about handmaidens and their comments commonly used to excuse hijacking of feminism to turn it all into men's rights activism.
1. -No Kink Shaming! (Okay, we went from no fat shaming which I'm okay with until that turned into treat thin women like the enemy to no kink shaming which is mostly aimed at protecting men that have violent kinks towards women. I think it's my duty to shame them and also shame the handmaidens at this rate) 2. -I have a trans friend! (Often times used as an excuse to belittle women that stand up against tyranny of sexist men larping as women.) So that's nice but how many women do you know? How many women actually agree with letting men into all female spaces where women don't want to be subjected to a man that could be a threat to women and children? - Leaving the list small because there are more just to leave room for comments. Express how you feel about handmaidens and their comments commonly used to excuse hijacking of feminism to turn it all into men's rights activism.

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[–] [Deleted] 48 points (+48|-0) Edited

‘TERFs harm both transwomen and cis women because their idea of what a woman is is so constructive and limiting’

See this a lot. It’s just a fantasy. Which side of the divide thinks that performing feminine stereotypes makes you a woman again? It ain’t the terven side

[–] salty-tomorrow 16 points (+16|-0)

Radfem uses a descriptive definition of women; for handmaidens it is prescriptive. Not hard to differentiate which one of those is worse for women...

[–] maypelsyrup 10 points (+10|-0)

They think that calling out TIMs theatrical presentation of women is us saying that they aren't women solely because they aren't doing performative femininity good enough. They also think the same thing when you say that a TIM very obviously looks like a man.

They can't seem to wrap their head around defining women on a biological level instead of stereotypes, so when you do use biological definitions, they can't comprehend that and assume you're just critiquing a TIMs ability to fulfill stereotypes.

Also btw your name is the best I love it so much

[–] notyourfetish 1 points (+1|-0)

They think that calling out TIMs theatrical presentation of women is us saying that they aren't women solely because they aren't doing performative femininity good enough. They also think the same thing when you say that a TIM very obviously looks like a man.

Aka they are dumb.

[–] maypelsyrup 1 points (+1|-0)

They're dumb but there's definitely a ""logic"" to their beliefs. It makes no sense and is entirely fallacious, but they do have a flowchart of thoughts.

[–] Wegotthebeat 5 points (+5|-0)

I think they’re confused about what we mean. They hear “biology matters” and think we’re tradfem / Jordan Peterson fans.

[–] [Deleted] 2 points (+2|-0)

There may be a few who are genuinely confused but I think most know better but wilfully misrepresent. It’s like us equating TRAs with the religious right because they both believe in gender roles