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[–] BathMat [OP] 19 points (+19|-0)

Just saw this on ripx4nutmeg’s twitter.

The part I thought is interesting is this:

““Bizarrely the shoppers do not appear to have noticed his conduct, despite the fact that he was making scant efforts to be discreet,” Judge Greally said having noted that there were also children in the shops in questions.”

He was dressed ‘as a woman.’

Could it be that women know that they are not supposed to question the presence or actions of any man in a dress, and fear the consequences of saying anything?

[–] DiabolicalPinkBunny 👽💕🐇 12 points (+12|-0)

My first thought, too. Never give any indication that you saw the man in a dress, because then you will get caught up in "affirming his gender," ten to one.

[–] jvsmine 10 points (+10|-0)

yup which is why they're starting to say that avoiding transpeople and not talking to them or not including them is now "literal violence". women in professional settings are being reported to HR for not asking TIMs out to lunch with other women. they literally think us not wanting to be around them is the same as wanting them dead. if I was filmed seeing a TIM in a change room and avoiding him and leaving, who would be doxxed when that video went viral? me, literally just for walking out when I see a man.

[–] Livin 1 points (+1|-0) Edited

Have TIMs actually reported their female colleagues for not being their friends or inviting them to lunch at work? How the hell would HR address this? Why is HR in the role of forcing women to be friends and invite TIMs out to lunch. Maybe women are working during lunch or doing personal errands (I mean if you live in the US, you barely have a lunch break as is). Maybe women are relaxing, listening to music, reading their kindle, talking on the phone, or scrolling through social media. Maybe these women are married and have children, and need to deal with family matters during their free time at work (because oh wait, child care is not accessible).

Like I just don't get how they can complain transphobia and I don't get how HR would even take their side!!! Like how could HR prove this and and then make women somehow talk to TIMs. HR can barely get men to treat women with respect. HR can barely stop sexual harassment and sexual abuse towards woman, and now woman have fucking deal with TIMs and their gender feels. Maybe HR should tell those TIMs to go to a fucking therapist and learn some social skills in order to make friends.

This is just made up, but is HR going to come up to me and say that TIM is crying transphobia, because you didn't invite him to your all girl sleepover with your sorority sisters (when in reality TIM was facebook/Instagram stalking me when my former college friends visited). TIM is crying transphobia because he heard you ask Nancy from accounting for a tampon. TIM is crying transphobia because he saw you loan your chapstick to Sally. TIM is crying transphobia because you said you needed Midol and complained about your period cramps on the phone to your mom and they overheard. TIM is crying transphobia because you were talking about your cousin's IVF to Lilly in Management. TIM is crying transphobia because you said that Harold was making sexually inappropriate comments, but Harold never made any sexually inappropriate comments to TIM. Or some other weird made-up shit.

[–] GCRadFem 5 points (+5|-0)

He was dressed ‘as a woman’.

This is only the beginning. It will be perverts on parade as they continue to invade female spaces.

A Chinese guy too, which shows this is spreading beyond creepy white male incels.