What's with the the "reframe their trauma" business? What does that even mean? Why is it up to brutalised women to make changes?

Argh, why can't TIMs just get over themselves?

What TIMs think it means is that transphobia (acknowledging the reality of biological sex) is a crime at least on the same level as rape, so no transphobia shall be committed trying to help victims of rape, hence the need to "reframe trauma". What it really means is brainwashing female victims of male violence to surrender their needs to the demands of men. I'm not a psychologist but I don't think misleading victims about the reality of a crime they suffered from is helpful.