I loved the blackface comparison. That was brilliant and spot on. I recall a recent post by a TIM talking about putting "woman" on and going to a strip club and being treated as a woman like being a women is, as I phrased it, "a tourist destination."

I had a former friend say to me once, he was telling me a story about how his parents refused to call him she/her or his new chosen name or daughter instead of son, and he said he was so frustrated because he even "womaned" that day and "femaled" that day by wearing makeup and a skirt and shaving. it was one of the many things he said that eventually fully peaked me, as in stopped thinking there were exceptions to TIMs being misogynistic shits. I thought he was a "good one".