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Turn out was nice. 11 of us. I wasn't the only lesbian for once. A conversation about tims came up and I was surprised some of them said they think many are faking!

Some started the blah blah twaw, but we changed the subject. They brought up goldstar lesbians and I just lmao. It's so true only non lesbians are offended. They asked me what I thought and I said I'm gold star, so what? I explained that growing up it wasn't an insult, but they wouldn't believe me.

One of the girls who's nonbinary, demisexual, two-spirit, pan+ (not even exaggerating) this chick names off this huge list. The other lesbian asked wtf does all that mean and she said she's only attracted to minds ๐Ÿ™„ Purple hair. Of course.

The only attracted to "minds" chick was sitting there practically naked. She said she was disappointed that lesbians only wanted sex from her like men. Uhh yeah. We don't want to sit around and just talk about feelings with you.

Walp, had fun regardless.

Turn out was nice. 11 of us. I wasn't the only lesbian for once. A conversation about tims came up and I was surprised some of them said they think many are faking! Some started the blah blah twaw, but we changed the subject. They brought up goldstar lesbians and I just lmao. It's so true only non lesbians are offended. They asked me what I thought and I said I'm gold star, so what? I explained that growing up it wasn't an insult, but they wouldn't believe me. One of the girls who's nonbinary, demisexual, two-spirit, pan+ (not even exaggerating) this chick names off this huge list. The other lesbian asked wtf does all that mean and she said she's only attracted to minds ๐Ÿ™„ Purple hair. Of course. The only attracted to "minds" chick was sitting there practically naked. She said she was disappointed that lesbians only wanted sex from her like men. Uhh yeah. We don't want to sit around and just talk about feelings with you. Walp, had fun regardless.

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They brought up goldstar lesbians and I just lmao. It's so true only non lesbians are offended. They asked me what I thought and I said I'm gold star, so what?

Plenty of late bloomer lesbians such as myself are bothered by the gold star "joke" because we've been accused of being stealth bisexuals, liars, or confused due to having slept with a guy in the past. "Gold stars" don't seem to understand that we slept with the guy because we were brainwashed not because we were attracted to him, and that sleeping with the man was traumatizing, but that's an entire other topic and I'll spare people the essay.

The only attracted to "minds" chick was sitting there practically naked. She said she was disappointed that lesbians only wanted sex from her like men. Uhh yeah. We don't want to sit around and just talk about feelings with you.

Walp, had fun regardless.

I most certainly want more than just sex from a woman, but I'm noticing more and more that femmes are saying the opposite is true of masculine lesbians and that all butches/studs (I'm black) only care about sex.

About a week ago, I got in an argument with a femme who kept saying that all studs only cared about sex and didn't want to settle down and have a relationship. When I told her I would gladly settle down if the right woman came along, she scoffed and said I wasn't a real stud, then told me to "prove it."

I dunno. Maybe this is something younger lesbians are on about. I wouldn't be surprised if a lot of lesbians hadn't been effected by a pornsick culture where everyone wants to be a heartless "savage" who just fucks women and dumps them. I sure am tired of being roped in with you people because I'm not like that at all.