This sub is so weird in regards to the relationships some of the women still have with their exes or husbands/boyfriends and how they idolise them. I'm not a late bloomer but I always thought this must be confusing for someone that is looking for support just to hear it's totally normal to still be in love with your male partner.
I used to love this sub because I found out I’m a lesbian at almost 30, but after I started noticing that many women who post there are just bisexual women who want to claim the lesbian label to themselves without actually being lesbians just made me upset.