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It was absolutely awful. When I asked her what her orientation is she had a long speech prepared๐Ÿ™„. I just zoned out thinking blah blah you are bi.

She said she's only attracted to a woman's mind, but doesn't rule out liking men. Yet her ex robbed her, felon, 2nd degree murder charge and she kept going back. I asked her why. She said well she was super hot. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„

So much for only wanting personality. The booze was good. Wish I could meet actual lesbians.

It was absolutely awful. When I asked her what her orientation is she had a long speech prepared๐Ÿ™„. I just zoned out thinking blah blah you are bi. She said she's only attracted to a woman's mind, but doesn't rule out liking men. Yet her ex robbed her, felon, 2nd degree murder charge and she kept going back. I asked her why. She said well she was super hot. ๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„๐Ÿ™„ So much for only wanting personality. The booze was good. Wish I could meet actual lesbians.

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I usually ask "do you date men too or just women?" when the topic of dating generally comes up, not necessarily because bi is a dealbreaker but because it changes the dating experience a LOT. Phrasing it this way gets to the point without getting into which label they personally prefer and what it means to them.

Only thing is now that transbians are so common it's possible that there exists bi women where the only men they've been with ID as women, so they, if they were even a little woke, might answer that question as "women only" when in reality it's both sexes. I guess that comes down to figuring out a way to filter out non-GC women, but that can be tricky these days, I imagine.