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literally just the title. i dont know if its the attention they want or they think its fun to play gay for a day but i am at a loss right now with this.

literally just the title. i dont know if its the attention they want or they think its fun to play gay for a day but i am at a loss right now with this.

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You don't. Or rather, you can, but it's likely a waste of time.

You can't change another person's behavior - this applies to anyone, regardless of sex or sexual orientation. The best thing you can do is work on your own boundaries. If you find yourself constantly being played, shoring up your own boundaries should be your #1 priority imo.

(I'm not saying you should excuse anyone's shittiness, just that trying to change other people, however shitty they are, is a huge waste of energy better spent on yourself, and eventually on better people.)