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Once more I’m in that virtual hell that is mindlessly swiping in hopes of some kind of intimate connection.

I’m tired of having to swipe through MEN though my settings are set to only women.

Im tired of swiping on weird edgelord girls or girls who are looking for friends only or couples, or girls who are just sooo not attractive to me.

It’s just another bottomless pit of despair.

So hopefully maybe some more of you ladies will hop on Club Monocle so they can get a dating section going? I feel like that app is my only safe space.

Once more I’m in that virtual hell that is mindlessly swiping in hopes of some kind of intimate connection. I’m tired of having to swipe through MEN though my settings are set to only women. Im tired of swiping on weird edgelord girls or girls who are looking for friends only or couples, or girls who are just sooo not attractive to me. It’s just another bottomless pit of despair. So hopefully maybe some more of you ladies will hop on Club Monocle so they can get a dating section going? I feel like that app is my only safe space.

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Tinder is a huge fucking joke. LOL. The one girl I felt connected to wasted my time over the course of almost two months. Everyone else, as mentioned, is either a TIM, couple looking for their unicorn, sex maniacs who only want one thing (fair, it IS Tinder I suppose), or straight up men.

Had a few trans men in there too. WTF?

I miraculously met my girlfriend on POF. We both consider that a very lucky coincidence. Dating apps are nightmares, but in person its damn near impossible now since the TRAs are taking over ALL of our spaces. Dive bars, ECT.

I’m even on match.com and it’s pitiful there too.

At one time I was on Zoosk and Scout but those didn’t let me filter for women only unless i really looked for it.

And Taimi you have to pay for to even START to use, in which all you get is again, men.

HER is filled with TIMs and they also nickel and dime you for everything as they give you not only ads, but restrict how many women you can swipe through in a day.

I have not tried POF. It does seem at this point that everything is redundant. And as you said, this is all we have! Adds even more to the frustration.