This was going on in lesbian bars back in the 1970s. I was hit on at 20 in 1977 by a beautiful woman at a nice lesbian bar. She asked me to dance. Afterward we got back to the bar...and suddenly the older boyfriend sidled up...and I was invited to the cliched three way. This sort of thing was common then. It still is apparently. It’s just perpetrated in lesbians online instead of in person.

I remember that. But back then the couple would almost always be kicked out and they had no recourse. If the woman was allowed to stay, she was ostracized and lesbians would warn each other about the predatory bi woman.

That’s true. Usually the woman was invited by the bartender or bouncer to stay but the boyfriend was told to get out. I can’t recall what happened to the male on the particular night I just described above. He was a well known youngish movie star at the time. I recognized him immediately but as people do in parts of California I played cool and didn’t acknowledge his Hollywood status. Today he’s an old has been trying to make himself relevant by spouting right wing political nonsense. Naturally he’s homophobic!