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Just downloaded HER to meet more lesbians in NYC. After finding 1 out of 3 profiles were men even though I entered 'lesbian' for my profile, I found that filter by gender is a paid service.

I'm beginning to think they put men in there on purpose because they know lesbians are desparate to pay for women only searches.

Just downloaded HER to meet more lesbians in NYC. After finding 1 out of 3 profiles were men even though I entered 'lesbian' for my profile, I found that filter by gender is a paid service. I'm beginning to think they put men in there on purpose because they know lesbians are desparate to pay for women only searches.

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[–] Hera 8 points Edited

It's extra annoying because even if you pay, they (as in men and other undesirable types) can still swipe right on you. There is no way to hide your profile from types you aren't seeking. It's a pretty worthless app and I deleted it after a while, as my notifs were filled with polys and men. =/

Edited because I dont know right from left lmao.

Ok so I tried this a few months ago. Only matched with one woman, who I went full GC on early in conversation. Our correspondence ended immediately.

Oh interesting, but what are the filter options? Like are you still getting both cis and trans women?

Can't test it because you have to 'pay to be gay' on this lesbian app it seems lol.

The filters are for 'gender', so no guarantee that men would be filtered out

Can confirm for you, paying does NOT filter them out as they usually tag themselves as "women" in addition to "transwoman" as a workaround to prevent lesbians from filtering them away. Save your money, you'll be doing yourself a favor.

OkCupid is like that, too. I still use it because it seems like the only option out there in terms of a broad userbase, but it's pretty bad. You can filter for specific terms, but you can't filter out specific terms.

Already deleted it iness than a day because there were billions of notifications lol

You can tag yourself as multiple genders, so most of the men tag themselves as both women AND transwomen so that those seeking real women have to see them regardless.