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I'm currently in a relationship with a man but I don't think it is working out. I have a very strong preference for women, but it seems like I keep dating men simply because they're convenient rather than because I'm actually attracted to them.

I would much rather date a woman, but I have a lot of difficulty just finding women who aren't straight without going to spaces explicitly for LGBT people. Unfortunately, I haven't found any spaces in my city that drop the T, and I don't think I would get on well with someone who expects me to change my political beliefs to include autogynophile acceptance.

I'm kinda stuck here, so advice would be appreciated. Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to respond!

I'm currently in a relationship with a man but I don't think it is working out. I have a very strong preference for women, but it seems like I keep dating men simply because they're convenient rather than because I'm actually attracted to them. I would much rather date a woman, but I have a lot of difficulty just finding women who aren't straight without going to spaces explicitly for LGBT people. Unfortunately, I haven't found any spaces in my city that drop the T, and I don't think I would get on well with someone who expects me to change my political beliefs to include autogynophile acceptance. I'm kinda stuck here, so advice would be appreciated. Thank you in advance to anyone who takes the time to respond!

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Not ready to date atm but I know it'll be a crazy fucking time to find someone who's radfem/gc.

What do you mean?

it’s almost impossible to find each other. like you can’t put “radfem” in your bio on dating apps bc you’ll get reported or doxxed.

Yes, safety but also those are my standards, I won't compromise on them. I can't be with someone who isn't on the level with that stuff.