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I am looking for something for LATE bloomers (especially those who ended up middle aged straight married yada yada before figuring out what it actually MEANS that you only have crushes on women). I found the reddit group but there are plenty of ... stunning and brave selfies there so I am not comfortable. Anything else anywhere?

I am looking for something for LATE bloomers (especially those who ended up middle aged straight married yada yada before figuring out what it actually MEANS that you only have crushes on women). I found the reddit group but there are plenty of ... stunning and brave selfies there so I am not comfortable. Anything else anywhere?

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You can give them the old backhanded compliment like ‘sorry, you look great but remind me too much of my ex’

Seriously. WTF man thinks he should post on late bloomers?

“This sub is women who were in comp het relationships w a man and have come to terms with being lesbian. I’ll bet they would totally love to upgrade from being with a man......to being with a man who says he is a woman”

No thanks. I’d have just told my husband to put on lipstick and saved myself a lot of money/time/hardship if that was all it took

I take it this has to be online? I used to know of a group for women over 40 who were coming out as lesbian. This was IRL and god knows, these groups are probably overrun by TIMs these days.

I know so many women who come out in midlife. Or who suspected in their 20s and 30s they were gay/bi and leaned more toward women, but were married with kids and decided to table it until later. Look at Elvira's story - she came out yesterday as being in a 19 year relationship with a woman, that started after she ended her 25 year marriage to a man. I think this is very common.

Unfortunately I don’t know any others. However, you can type -flair:selfie into the search bar of the subreddit. This will exclude all selfies

I probably explained it badly, having gotten used to talking around the issues. I mean, there are many "male lesbians" in the group and that makes me a bit uncomfortable talking about stuff.

Yea it’s unfortunate… They conflate being an “egg” 🤢 to comphet. Even lesbians that buy into transgenderism have got to realize these are two different issues. No male has ever been shamed by society for his attraction to females

I don’t know of anything, unfortunately. But you’re welcome to post here until you find a new niche.