Not so irrational, actually, when the consequences - social, emotional, and sometimes also financial - of stating those truths or asking those questions have been so amply demonstrated: losing friendships, being ostracised, sometimes losing your means of livelihood. Oh, wait, those consequences don't come down heavily - or often at all - on someone like you, Leo. So what is it that's keeping men from speaking truth and asking obvious questions?

Right?! Women who speak out are putting themselves at risk. The playing field is not even. More feminist men need to step the fuck up.