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Literally, the number of times I've seen people even say the mother was "too loving".. I mean, like Hitler ffs.
There's evidence of his radicalisation as a young man, he went through the trauma of the first world war, he had an abusive father, and yet people STILL make out the reason he was a killer was because he was close to his mother and she mollycoddled him.
And yet, if she'd been distant or disinterested you know THAT would be the reason.
The same with Jimmy Saville. People always look to the relationship with the mother in order to explain the acts of the son, and whatever they find is confirmation bias; (delete as required) Mothers shouldn't have multiple relationships/be divorced/have lots of children/only have one child/be poor/be sex workers/be rich/work full time/be unemployed/be chronically ill/be religious/reject religion/be feminist/ be traditional/be strict/be easy-going with rules and they mustn't mollycoddle/dismiss/neglect/abuse/dote on/spoil their children or they'll create psychopaths.
The pure acrobatics this society does to avoid simply admitting that men are enabled and even encouraged to commit violent and hateful acts in this society. I mean, just look at TRAs, wielding their baseball bats.

men are enabled and even encouraged to commit violent and hateful acts in this society

This is the truth. It takes great strength of character (normally fostered by great mothering) for a man to reject this. No man fully rejects it.