My brother tried to claim me doing things for him like giving him a lift was abuse because apparently I only did it so I could ask for money. Yeah, I needed to pay for that fuel to ferry you around non-stop. That was the only thing I asked payment for
Getting off free whenever you do something wrong is so traumatizing
Sitting on your ass while your mom and sisters do everything is the most severe level of physical and emotional abuse you could ever inflict on someone