Also, in woke circles, they actively discourage class consciousness. Poor women and rich women are both at risk of domestic violence, but we are to keep quiet. Black women and white women both face harassment at work, but the black women is encouraged to think it's only race-based, if she wants any help. Western women and non-western women are discouraged from talking to each other, especially in the topics of religion. This is just from personal experiences, but there is active effort to obfuscate and minimize discussion, which explains the heavy surveillance culture in woke spaces.

What a way to admit you’re a misogynist

“Most women are unlikeable”

I only partially agree. I think a bigger reason is that young women very rarely have older role-models and are actively discouraged to listen to or believe older women, that older women are all but invisible culturally, and that older feminist theory gets framed as "outdated and problematic" which steers them away from seeking it out. Younger women barely have any access to get class consciousness like that, especially with the added-on neoliberal choosy-choice empowerment of individually being the most feminine - if you get taught that feminism is about individuals and choices, you don't start thinking about class oppression.

The "young women don't listen to older women because society views them as outdated" view is true to an extent, but it's not the main culprit. I would have killed for any kind of older female role model when I was younger, but feminists just do not seem to do a lot of outreach to young women. We get exposed to religion, politics, media, and experience at least a decade or two of socialization before girls happen upon actual feminist ideas and media.

I've seen tonsss of posts complaining that TRAs go after children and how early children are exposed to misogynistic ideas. I've also seen a lot of complaints from posters who are a bit older about memes made based on things like cartoons/anime which are more likely to catch the eye of young people (and the complaints boiled down to "I don't like looking at this")

At some point feminists need to look at our own tactics and start figuring out where we can strategize and do better.

I can't be the only person who reads "older women" and has a slurry of negative feelings rush in regarding my relationships to the older women in my life - not because I see them as 'past their prime' - but because they treat me with condescension and seem to never cease in exploiting their higher spot in the social pecking order. I've tried my damnedest to not treat my younger peers this way as I've aged. First we need to recognize the social conditioning we ourselves have experienced and how it might color our relationships with younger women before we lay the blame on "young people and society"

This is a really important topic and the responses here are really spot on.

I do have one objection, though, and that is the naming of females as a class. We are, in fact, a caste. This may seem relatively minor, but it has some major implications for how we see our situation in patriarchy and thus for what strategies with which it may be possible to change it. Mobility is possible between classes, but not between castes. Women cannot escape the female caste, even by transitioning.