I think another reason why this happens is that therapy can be shitty, and it's difficult to find a good psychologist. Most of them just shoved mindfullness and breathing excercises my way, they didn't care to get to know me and my problems.

I'm trying to find a radfem therapist bc I know I'll get annoyed otherwise bc a lot of things I have to work through are related to trauma from men

The last thing I need is a gender-woke pickme therapist