There’s an old saying, “if you use a feather you’re playful, if you use the whole chicken you’re kinky.”

I think some people get the impression that feminists are unadventurous prudes and don’t actually enjoy sex. There’s a huge difference between real sex positivity in acknowledging that women have libidos, shouldn’t feel guilt or shame over having them, practicing safe sex and the libfem view of “sexual liberation” which is performing or submitting to acts that are degrading and dangerous for men’s pleasure.

Wanting to hurt and degrade or be hurt or degraded by your partner isn’t healthy.