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[–] ArmyofMe 55 points (+55|-0)

I’m fine with them sticking trash cans in men’s bathrooms.

[–] notyourfetish 80 points (+81|-1)

I'm fine with them sticking men in trash cans.

[–] HesitantHyena 7 points (+7|-0)

I'm fine with both, lol.

But in all seriousness, I wish all toilets had sanitary bins, for both sexes. There are many types of disabilities that cause you to have sanitary waste. Even mild disabilities can have symptoms like incontinence for example, for which you have special pads. Bins would just make everything more disability friendly for everyone.

great point. imagine if the world cared as much about accessibility for all humans as they did trans people's comfort.

[–] JimminyCricket 40 points (+42|-2) Edited

this is the type of TIF that willingly uses themselves to destroy womanhood so remember her. 1. These TIF's are the ones who say, "men can get pregnant too!" and erase womanhood 2. These TIF's are the ones who say, "it's not female genital mutilation! Men suffer from it too!" and erase the humiliation, suffering and violence done against little girls 3. These TIF's are the ones who say, "men can get periods too!" and distort the messaging to unify women around sex based needs to help each other by striking our heel for every step we take to help form a cohesive effort to alleviate women's suffering.

What i find interesting as a lesbian is, it's interesting how not only can you see massive differences between the men and women who claim to be transexual, but you also notice quite a large difference in psychology between HSTS (homosexual transexuals) and AGP/AAP (heterosexual fetishist transexuals).

Their homosexual counterparts are usually far more reserved and their tactics are to move like a mist through heterosexual spaces most of the time and try and build empathy and make appeals to people's humanity but their heterosexual counterparts move into rooms with baseball bats and narcissistic levels of entitlement they demand be accommodated in the most forceful and dominant tones possible. I guess because the homosexuals know theyre a minority and how to behave as one and to be hyper aware of other people's perceptions of them, letting them be more calculated and these ones are heterosexuals and have no real idea what being a real minority is like so they dont care how badly they "rock the boat".

Here's a small sample i got from LGBdroptheT of how these "gay trans men" truly feel about gay men.

https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipN6bUPUugEzmNmC-nZTunsVPUtgAuMANMmoVSD1j5gmROqY5E53VSCukHKc8zSRHA?key=bTMzMDNKeC1vbkFkRjlqTHJKM284RU1IQ3JkSlF3

I dont like HSTS people but there's no equivalent to whats in that link from their side.

[–] Mother-of-Rats 14 points (+14|-0)

You know, regarding the FGM thing. TIFs are usually from white families and would be unlikely to ever have experienced FGM which makes their selfishness even more grotesque.

[–] XX_Power 7 points (+7|-0)

And vice versa, women who were forced into FGM have other problems than navel gaze about their gender.

[–] proudcatlady 11 points (+11|-0)

Whoa. I didn’t make it through that avalanche. Those ladies are really getting good at pretending to be male socialized. That’s a level of entitlement I’ve never seen from women before.

Did you see that one butt, by the way?? Is there something about T that does that? Like muscle mass + squats? I know a bio male with a butt like that and I don’t know where I’m going with that but I have to say I am impressed

[–] XX_Power 4 points (+4|-0)

Oh wow you made me go back to find the butt! Honestly that's pretty much what i have, growing up i despised it because back then we were still doing heroin chic. Suddenly big butts were in fashion and i felt better about myself (that was still way before discovering radfem)

[–] proudcatlady 2 points (+2|-0)

Wow congratulations on having an impressive butt. I think my legs would get tired from hauling it around all day.

as someone who squats a lot with heavy weights to get a bigger butt, I'm totally jelly of your natural one! I too remember heroin chic and how hard it was.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0)

If it's the first butt (in side view), then I think the body's photoshopped.

[–] Griffxx 7 points (+7|-0)

Yep, because that how Misogynistic they are. Femminators like the Terminators, but they destroy any words or phrases related to being FEMALE.

[–] ShieldMaiden 4 points (+4|-0) Edited

They’re also using gender identity as a way to excuse sexism, particularly in the form of online harassment/abuse. I recently experienced this in a Facebook group I’m a part of for collectors - male dominated group, but there are a few active females. One of the members made a sexist comment in a thread — I don’t remember the exact comment, it was made by the group moderator who identifies as a gay man, and it was something along the lines of, “Why are you so upset? Is it time for your period?”

Me: “I guess shitting on women with casual sexism is perfectly acceptable in this group. /s”

Moderator: “Periods aren’t just for women. Men can have periods, too, and you’re the one who is sexist for not acknowledging that.”

This dude made a sexist, anti-female joke, but I somehow became the bad guy in this scenario. This is a very harmful slippery slope that basically excuses men, or whoever, from being held accountable for their casual sexism. When our society erases the important differences between men and women, they can pretend like real, harmful, casual, everyday sexism doesn’t exist anymore. What even is sexism, if we pretend that men and women are the same?

[–] [Deleted] 2 points (+2|-0)

Someone there says "Literally I got cancelled for saying that hating cis gay guys is bad."

All this hate and hate speech is nuts. And all based on other people not finding them attractive.

And these people claim that WE'RE the nazis? Again, all that gender critical feminists want, is for safe spaces for women, and for everyone (lesbians, homosexuals, straight people) to be able to freely choose their own human adult sexual partners without that being linked to politics.

[–] DebraKadabra 34 points (+34|-0)

This reminds me of a very drunken New Years where I bypassed the girls line for the boys. They were both one-holers at this bar, so what was the big deal? There's still a regular toilet in there across from the urinal. I came out and got chided by some pretty boy. Like what, did he wait there a whole 30 seconds? I was fast, despite my drunkeness and thorough hand-washing. Anyway I told him he better watch his step because I exploded used tampons everywhere.

The look of disgust on his face sustains me still.

Anyway, on topic, sure, have bins in the mens.

[–] Griffxx 13 points (+13|-0)

We are just a breath away from TIMs demanding urinals being in women's bathrooms.

I wouldn't send that energy out in the Universe.

[–] bornwithovaries 11 points (+12|-1)

I would say yes, and then put the urinal in a STALL. With a closing DOOR. And require that they close it when using it.

Instant boner kill.

[–] [Deleted] 1 points (+1|-0)

You know they're not going to close the door to the urinal.

And then this will be a new talking point: how dare you try to control these "women" when all they want to do is pee, and they're in a rush? It's not like they're showing you their "girldick" anyway! Don't look!

This wouldn't surprise me in the least. I've seen biological women make the case that "girldicks" in locker rooms are not a big deal, and if the "girldick" happens to be erect in this locker room, then that's just something that happens sometimes, and out of anyone's control. Get over it!

Isn't that how public unisex restrooms look like: urinals and stalls in one room for both sexes? It's the perfect solution for male convenience, perversion, and sexual misconduct.

[–] Griffxx 12 points (+12|-0)

I'm hoping not. Men's bathrooms smell like army latrines. Men can be filthy.

Margaret Cho joked: "If men had periods, their bachelor pads would look like a murder scene."

[–] Jade 9 points (+9|-0)

My experience in Australia and Edinburgh with unisex toilets was just stalls, no urinals. Thankfully. Male toilets are disgusting and I really don’t need added urinals and penises in my toilets, thank you very much.

[–] XX_Power 2 points (+2|-0)

Haha you had me there in the first half when you said "it's the perfect solution..."

[–] Srfthrowaway 9 points (+9|-0)

Anyway I told him he better watch his step because I exploded used tampons everywhere.

Lol 😂

[–] Tesserae_Tali 27 points (+27|-0) Edited

Uggh. Why are the entitled, attention-seeking ones always straight?

[–] JimminyCricket 25 points (+25|-0) Edited

cause they were never really raised as a minority so they tend to be way more aggressive and dominant in asserting themselves. they werent raised with the whole, "appeal to people's humanity, inspire empathy..you're a minority" psychology. their style is more of a barging into a room with a baseball bat rather than gently progressing like a mist and calculating your moves. the difference in psychology shows. there's also an element of homophobia where they feel emboldened because theyre dealing with a minority so they think they "run things". it's annoying.

[–] hmimperialtortie 19 points (+19|-0)

And why do they try to look like the fugliest men? Huge beard and minimal head hair, 🤮

[–] littleowl12 16 points (+16|-0)

They say baldness is genetic but I’m really wondering if it’s how long you’re on T.

[–] viragoeternal [OP] 27 points (+27|-0)

oh boy. T makes them all go bald. it's tragic. it's VERY unkind but I call it 'garden gnome syndrome' as they all start to look the same on T after a few years... bald, pube-bearded, puffy, bloated and shiny. beautiful, perfect women just wrecked by that synthetic drug.

[–] hmimperialtortie 12 points (+12|-0)

From what I’ve heard it’s caused by T in TIFs. If there was no other reason to steer clear of it that would be the decider for me, had I ever thought of “transitioning” - give me the men of times past with luxurious long curls!

Hair loss is most commonly a male issue so it's actually very well researched. There are different causes but the main one is a specific enzyme involved in steroid metabolism and it can be stopped by taking an antiandrogen.

[–] bornwithovaries 1 points (+1|-0)

It's genetic in men. It may work differently in women on T.

My dad turns 70 this year, and while his hair has gotten thinner with age, he hasn't had a bald spot really per se.

[–] viragoeternal [OP] 13 points (+13|-0)

on her feed she's talking about how 'even' a cis gay man came for her, but he's not her type anyway so she doesn't care. because it's all about who she wants to fuck of course.

[–] hypatia 10 points (+10|-0)

It's so stunted and sad how so many people think orgasms are the most important thing in life

[–] KBash 14 points (+14|-0)

It’s also ironic how ideologically sexually driven this movement is considering many trans people are sacrificing their orgasmic ability for life.

It’s almost like seeing sex and sexuality as something you are rather than something you do.

[–] proudcatlady 7 points (+7|-0)

I think in this case she thinks objectifying people will make her seem more masculine.

[–] OneStarWolf 25 points (+25|-0) Edited

I find her claim that she still has periods super suspicious <_< Being on T long enough will stop your periods and eventually lead to vaginal atrophy. And she definitely is taking more than enough T for that full beard. Seems to me this person is just in it for the attention and woke points and isn’t being fully truthful.

[–] viragoeternal [OP] 10 points (+10|-0)

that occured to me too. to have that much facial hair is what most TIFs dream of. it is possible she had a lot of body hair to begin with, but even still - it takes years on plenty of T for most of them to get beard growth like that, and those ones never menstruate.

[–] Sunkised 8 points (+8|-0)

Sometimes they still get it. Or they get off T for a short while because of Vaginal atrophy. This was an issue for one of the detrans women I watched

[–] crispycherrypie 20 points (+20|-0)

“I’m a straight woman with a fetish for gay men and a pathological need for everyone to pay attention to me.”

[–] EvaDemeter 11 points (+11|-0)

Maybe it's my age, but our sense of self preservation was always to keep pretty much any and everything closeted a bit if it endangered our physical safety. t must be a great override to that, but still can't help but think TIFs are going to really get hurt....worse...with this stuff.

[–] proudcatlady 11 points (+11|-0)

I genuinely think the average man would be more horrified about period product disposal bins in his restroom than women would about a TIM masturbating furiously in an adjacent stall to her. I’m not even meming. This is based on experience.

I mean, I'm all in favour of a cultural shift around men's pathetic crybaby attitude to menstrution so maybe this is even a good thing in some way? lol not really, but I am honestly so tired of how bound up men get around period stuff. they will literally take photos of their shits to send to their mates (ugghhhhh) but a packet of unused tampons crosses their path and they shriek and scream like the 'little girls' they apparently don't want to be. it's fucking pathetic and boring and they need to get over it already.

[–] Sunkised 9 points (+9|-0)

What in the world. Just wrap it up and throw it in the regular trashbin

[–] notsofreshfeeling 9 points (+9|-0) Edited

So when this female person says they are a gay man... who are they really sleeping with? other TiFs? I am struggling to imagine a straight "cis" man being into this. And definitely not an actual gay man?

I know it doesn't really matter and to each his own but I'm struggling to translate what these words mean in real life...

[–] JimminyCricket 5 points (+6|-1)

if you go into their subs on reddit, TIFs constantly complain that bisexuals constantly pursue and "chase" them because theyre "easy access to vaginas". Theyre enraged by bisexual men or sometimes incredibly desperate straight men. They, like "transbians" no longer wish to be used by bisexuals or heterosexuals who just laugh behind their. backs and just use their bodies. We've tormented gay people and murdered them for over 2000 years for not being able to be attracted to or sleep with women. They, like lesbians are the golden seal of approval. A gay man is incapable of being sexually attracted to a woman so you can sleep with him then SURELY you must really be a man. Theyre obsessed with gay men like AGP straight men are obsessed with lesbians. They demonize homosexuals as if bisexuals are somehow magically open minded and pure...when the bisexuals and heterosexuals are laughing behind their backs and just see them as the sex they are rather than what they identify as.

and it's not going so well for these TIF's, which the majority identify as "gay". here's their rage:https://photos.google.com/share/AF1QipN6bUPUugEzmNmC-nZTunsVPUtgAuMANMmoVSD1j5gmROqY5E53VSCukHKc8zSRHA?key=bTMzMDNKeC1vbkFkRjlqTHJKM284RU1IQ3JkSlF3

I mean... my armchair psychology degree tells me if people want to go this far out of their way to be unfuckable, then perhaps they're really just fuck-phobic and pretending to want sex because wanting sex is what normies do. So, in a way this is like saying "I'm normal, really! I just can't seem to find a partner."

Like, an asexual virgin male who says he won't have sex with anyone unless they're a supermodel; he wants to fit in with the guys, so he pretends his standards are really high.

these women tend to have enormous sexual hang-ups of all kinds. TMI time...

I have had sex with a few transmen and it was always awkward and difficult and very unfulfilling. they wanted to be the 'man' but often lacked experience, any sort of confidence, not to mention respect and tenderness for my body, capped off with palpable revulsion towards my female genitalia (and... I never get complaints. I know a lot of men can be vagina-repulsed because of socialisation, but tbh most of them were always eager to get up close and personal even if they didn't know what they were doing. with transmen it was noticeably different. they couldn't stay far enough away. given our shared female bodies, this was extremely hurtful). one of these transmen went out and bought herself the biggest strap on he could find - but wasn't especially interested in foreplay and didn't really want to give me head, but then got all butthurt when my unready body couldn't accommodate the dildo. the last experience I had basically ended in an assault because of how careless and callous the transman was, even though I'd explained it had been a long time since I'd had penetrative sex before we even got started. I am usually the 'receiver' in lesbian sex, but I have experience being the doer, and know full well the care that must be taken making a woman's body ready to receive penetration with a larger object if she's not in regular practice with it. it blew my mind that awful person seemed to have no concept of it. none of them were ever much for foreplay. one of them now has a femme 'girlfriend' who is basically just her emotional support live in companion while she goes out and fucks men in saunas (that's a common story in the community believe it or not). one, the one most personally abusive to me, disappeared. another is known for violently abusing every femme she has ever been with. and the last transprently hates women and will only date other transmen (and spent some of the time we hooked up putting down butches and sneering at them). there was also a very strange public incident where she kept staring at the butch I was dating at the time from across the room, culminating with tossing ice at her. incredibly bizarre.

another key peak moment for me was when I dared to post publicly about experiencing transmen's internalised misogyny during sex, only to get a 'call out' in my inbox from a newly minted 'nb' dating a transman (who, surprise surprise, was followed by rumours of abuse towards her ex) informing me that I was using terf rhetoric and would I like to have a discussion about it? I knew the dipshit boyfriend had sent her. and was so upset by this attempt to stop me from honestly naming what I sensed in my deepest intuition was occuring that I just responded with 'no, not really. I know what I experienced'. branded TERF in that moment.

femmes and other LB women being silenced about how we observe and experience misogyny being played out around us is par for the course now. we have too many insights to share.

[–] yikesforever 3 points (+3|-0)

You can say men get periods if you destroy langauge, but then the statement is worthless anyway.

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