[–] hufflepuff-poet 14 points (+14|-0)

What does this tell me about this person?! They/he lesbian?!? Are you a male or a female? Are you same-sex or opposite-sex attracted or both or neither? Words have meanings, how is this effective communication with others...

[–] LadyGlum 3 points (+3|-0)

I know a they/he lesbian who is female and it boggles my mind. They're not even in a homosexual relationship, they're with a TIM. And they don't think of themselves as female at all, so on what level are you a female loving another female? If you believe your male partner is a woman and can be in a lesbian relationship, then how can you simultaneously believe your they/he self is a lesbian because you're female? I cannot wrap my head around it. I know these people don't need logic, just validation, but they'll say multiple impossible things in one sentence.