The framing of "I need to be in a loving relationship before I want sex with someone" as part of the asexual spectrum (honesty wtf?) is ridiculous.

Who exactly is setting up "I always want to shag everyone" as the standard in society? The straight queers? Incels?

Not to mention that I don't understand the need to publicise anything about your preferences - especially if in a long term committed relationship. I'm bi. I'm also married. I feel no desire or need to discuss/announce my bisexuality, because it means nothing unless I'm dating.

Everyone is so desperate to be seen as interesting and be talked about on social media. It's tragic.

Feels so strange after years of dealing with anti-gay shit from strangers and my family, most of it quite painful, to be married to a man and never have the fact that i'm bisexual ever come up, yet it feels icky to try and "use" it to score some kind of internet point so I just never talk about it.